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Role Models?

By: brendakaitlin
Written on July 1st, 2012
Age: 36-40 , Transgender
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  • grimalkin

    My TG heroines are slightly less romantic and outré than the girls you mention. US culture makes the situation so desperate for non-masculine persons with male bodies.



    In particular I look up to Coccinelle, April Ashley and Jan Morris.

    Coccinelle worked in a parisian cabaret, April worked as a model until she was outed by the press, but has now been given an MBE, alas she has not been made a dame, and Jan Morris was a journalist, who now is a respected historian and novelist. The first two were lucky to have been born with very feminine features, Jan Morris on the other hand is less so. None of them died for their cause, but all of them were ground breakers and struggled for changes to the law and social recognition. I love them for it.

    Jul 2, 2012
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  • Alasandra

    what an amazing story of our own to close up this important information. Thank you for sharing that part of yourself to us.



    Ali

    Jul 1, 2012
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  • brendakaitlin

    I do get sad about Christine Daniels story especially. That is what terrifies me. When the person you love the most doesn't give you the emotional support you need what do you do? All of her friends said that when she was transitioning she became more outgoing and friendly. A glowing social butterfly

    They said it was obvious that was who she was supposed to be. She stopped her hormones, stopped her laser hair removal. Then stopped loving I mean living. She snakes a hose from her exhaust to the inside of her Toyota Camry. She left a note. For me personally I would rather have my loved one whole as they needed to be not broken as someone wanted them to be. I know that ladies like us sometimes take this road. My heart bleeds every time we lose one of our sisters like this.

    Jul 1, 2012
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  • shelle48

    Nice post Brenda.

    Jul 1, 2012
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  • Ellefem

    Lucky you Brenda to have had a friend like that. In high school, the girls always wanted me as a friend. It always made me wonder if they just didn't see me as a guy? I didn't look effimante or act that way, but I definitely was not the alpha male.

    Jul 1, 2012
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    • brendakaitlin

      After I married we lost contact. She moved to Dallas after graduation.

      Jul 1, 2012
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    • Ellefem

      did you look for her on the web, fb, other sites?

      Jul 1, 2012
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    • brendakaitlin

      I have her last name is or was Smith. I have located literally thousands of Kristi smiths and not found her. I am pretty easy to locate so hopefully we will cross each others paths.

      Jul 1, 2012
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