I am in a committed relationship, and love the woman I am with. However, I continually think about an ex-girlfriend. The thoughts are unwanted. When she and I were together she felt like my soul mate, but it didn't work out. The thoughts have become less frequent over time, but I still love her. I just want the feelings to go away.
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1 Response Aug 17, 2014

Do you really love 2 in the same time?, which one do you love more, the one you're with or your ex? you only have one heart, if you really want to continue with her, stop gradually thinking about your ex, and see what will happen.

No, you want the feeling go away because you don't want to fell guilty, you don't want to hurt the one you have now, you don't want to ruin the life you have now, you love your girl now, sure but a part of you still attach to the other girl, you don't want to go back, you don't want to fail in your relationship now, this hard but try to forget about her gradually and focus with your new love now, and see what will happen.