Divorced And Undivorced

Years ago.........Ok maybe it wasn't that long ago.

My husband and I hated each other. I was being strong and independent. I took total care of the kids, worked up to 3 jobs at a time. Got them all cell phones so they could call me at any time, and took them to a sitter if I wasn't at home.

Then I divorced him. Hey there is a surprise. Of course Everyone said I should. You know everyone, they listen to you, barely know him. He travels for his job. Is gone a week two weeks at a time even the neighbors don't know who he is so it is natural. He has to be a looser who your better off with out.

Then the divorce.....Well we have this herd of kids...so he comes over to spend time with them. While he is here he cooks dinner for us all. We watch TV together, spend the evening together...
Yep I sucked at being divorced almost as bad as I did being married...

So we talked, and talked, and got back together. Now I am back to the way we believed when we first got married. Before I got so busy being everyone's mom. Being a big shot working too hard. Slowly at first I got the hang of being a submissive wife. Listening to my husband, not to Everyone.

Changed to one well paying job. Stopped being jealous of his job. Let him carry the load that was his. When I let stress, anger, frustrations get too much the occasional stress spanking can fix that. When I get too big for my britches a spanking can fix that too.

My children are so much happier, my marriage is wonderful. And Everybody agrees I have a great husband. I made the right choice to submit to my husband through DD. With his love and guidance things are as they should be. It is not enough to be a strong intelligent, woman with a
fancy job.

For me I am a better person, wife and mother, because my husband cares and loves me enough to give me a spanking when I need one.
JennaR JennaR
51-55, F
4 Responses Sep 14, 2012

Was spanking a part or your realtionship before the divorce?

Not really but Obey was.

The word divorce is not part of our vocabulary anymore!
DD has all the tools for solving problems - how amazing is that?

This is a fabulous story! You had found your soul-mate and didn't know it - then you found DD and him again and are so happy together! I love your story and am so happy you have found happiness with the right man for you! Better late than never.
I believe that if more people lived this way, there would be far less couples getting divorced!! A lot of marriages fail because women lose respect for their husbands - but if they lived a domestic disciplined lifestyle - they would have so much more respect for a man who takes charge, makes the major decisions, disciplines and enforces the rules.
Who wouldn't want that??
All the luck to you two!
Looking forward to reading more

Jack's Jill


I believe modern women today, through all their "freedoms of feminism", are generally unhappy, overburdened and overwhelmed. Now women must be CEOs, breadwinners, alpha females and power chicks. Wife and mother is no longer good enough. Those of us who have found the joy in submission and DD have learned the secret to a happy life. Fulfilling our natural role makes us more complete and satisfied. So happy for you that you found this lifestyle and were able to put your family back together! Amazing story

I couldn't have said it better!!!