My (ex)-boyfriend Has Dp And Really Want To Help Him =(Hello ! Please read this =(
I'm from portugal , so if my english isn't very good i will ask you to understand :s
I have read almost all that people wrote here, so I'll wrote too and wish to have luck.
The guy that i love has depersonalization for almost one year, or even more , and he is getting worse =( We dated 3 months and then he told me that he couldn't trust and love , he said that he really liked me and i disorve his love but i just couldn't trust me and love me even that he wanted to . I know that having no emotions is part of DP (depersonalization) so i told him that it was better for us to broke up and I would always be by his side.
Now, 3 months later we still talk , and everytime he feels bad he says to me and I try to help him, but what i can do is telling him something like "you're right" , "you will get better" and things like that. But he is getting worse , after we broke up he smoked weed and no he has more panick attacks , he feels very very anxious all the time and he even can't sleep well . The only place that he felt safe was at home and now even at some he can't feel safe . He wants to get better so much !
So plz , i will ask for your help , even that you only say me one thing =( i'm so sad for him =(
Help me so i can help him , please , he his only a teen just like me =(
I will wait for something , I will always help him !
Thank you so much if you read this ..
and GOOD LUCK to everyone that suffers from dp too, i wish you all of you to get better