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I Support Mgtow Men Going Their Own Way

In Their Own Words

By: DenteAvvelenato
Written on September 24th, 2012
Age: 31-35 , Female
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  • Scarcollection

    When they keep the daggers attached to their bodies in their pants at all times and truly go their own way (so no mingling with femininity or women! focus on your own masculinity, go play football together and fix your car or something!), I'll totally support that.
    I don't care if they'll eat steak for breakfast, lunch AND dinner, do as you please, I really love the idea men going their own way, as long as they'll never touch a woman nor speak a word to her.

    Good solution, for everyone involved... they can jerk off 10 times a day too, as long as that doesn't involve actual women. ^^

    Dec 31, 2012
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    • RedRubies

      lol Scar....

      Dec 31, 2012
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    • DenteAvvelenato
      Dec 31, 2012
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    • Scarcollection

      Gosh, I love this sexbot idea... I wasn't saying it as a "you can't have fun with us men!" but as a "leave us alone and stop ruining our lives men!", if they'd have fembots, they won't rape actual women with feelings.
      We finally would gain a special kind of female privilege to rival that of men: the privilege of being exclusive and not considered replacable objects.
      We would get another chance maybe... to be united as women and make a stance against competitive objectivication, we finally might be able to say "you don't treat me right? well, than marry a fembot! You can't have me.".
      Now it's what men tell us: "you won't cave in for me? okay, I'll **** a **** or rape a hooker and keep her silent by giving her money she desperately needs" or like my best friend experiences all the time: "I don't want a comitted relationship, just sex... you won't give me sex? okay, I'll just find a **** and you won't be getting any attention".

      Of course, the pessimistic scenario would be: even more competition... I wish a was a lesbian (or a-sexual) at times like these.
      I refuse to become a **** for attention though, I won't be a part of the fifth column.

      Dec 31, 2012
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    • DenteAvvelenato

      Your going to hate what the mgtow pua division is about then... Trigger warning


      http://forums.somethingawful.com/showthread.php?threadid=3473069

      Dec 31, 2012
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  • ladyblue848

    Why on earth would any man believe that:



    Demanding respect for men

    Living independent lives

    Fighting chivalry



    is going to instill masculinity in men and make them appear as good role models? If anything it is going to cause the opposite to occur. They aren't going to appear masculine. They are going to appear selfish, self-centered, and immature, and as a result they are going to appear as horrible role models



    And why do they believe that women are the only ones who should be:



    Nurturing

    Supportive

    Responsible

    Respectful

    Honest



    and that men shouldn't also exhibit these characteristics? Don't they realize how bad this makes them look? They are putting it out there that while they expect women to be such great people, they don't need to be good people themselves in any way. They can just be selfish and self-centered, and not give a $hit about anyone else. I say keep it up boys, because you are just chiming the death knell for MGTOWs by thinking any person in their right mind is ever going to want to have anything to do with a man who thinks this way.

    Nov 7, 2012
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  • Scorpio1987

    Where do I sign up?

    Nov 6, 2012
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    • Scorpio1987

      I was just being sarcastic Ladyblue. Sorry, I took it for granted that Dente knows where i stand with issues pertaining to dominance and submission etc. Well i assume she vaguely knows that I generally do not advocate for that type of thing. I think it can be interesting and exciting to play these roles sexually but as a lifestyle I would lean towards equality, mutuality and reciprocation as opposed to dominance. A good relationship in my view is one where both parties bring out the best in each other. Where both can grow to be responsible adults capable of nurturing and protecting among other things as opposed to an adult that still requires nurturing and "protecting" constantly without any signs of personal growth. That's just my opinion.

      Nov 7, 2012
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    • ladyblue848

      I remember that Scorpio, and am sorry I got your comment above wrong, which is why I deleted my reply which was completely out of line since I know the kind of person you are and like you, and am proud of you.

      Nov 7, 2012
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    • Scorpio1987

      No worries. Misunderstandings are common. It is difficult to convey or to pick up sarcasm over the internet so I really do not hold it against you. But thank you for your considerate response. It is much appreciated. :-)

      Nov 7, 2012
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  • gumshoejane2

    Oh wow!
    It is utterly repugnant the way they want to pigeon hole women into these narrow little sots of so called femininity.
    I would love to look these so called "masculinists" in the eye and scream " PEOPLE ARE PEOPLE"!!!!!!!!!!! There is no such thing as a purely "feminine" female or a purely "masculine" male. Both men and women share feminine and masculine traits and this is a good thing.
    What they want is a return to patriarchy where men are in control and women are supportive. I say "SCREW THAT"!

    Nov 6, 2012
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  • CopperCoil

    Let them go their own way. they seem harmless. I have been going my own way for years now. Can't say I recommend it, but it has never been a choice for me. Advice: when going your own way bring snacks and a book, cause it is lonely and you will get hungry.

    Nov 6, 2012
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    • DenteAvvelenato

      (((((hugs)))) You sir go your own way with integrity and intelligence ... you should be proud. Also, the book and snacks are good tips

      Nov 6, 2012
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  • cameronr

    Gosh! What a sheer waste! The thing that I find the most distasteful about this manifesto is the two references to 'respect' in the '3 main strategies' - encouraging men to 'demand respect' and teaching women 'respectfulness'. Its funny how some people get all the basic concepts of life all wrong. Respect is not something to be demanded; it is to be commanded. Obviously, they are confusing respect with fear. Translated, they want men to be fearsome and women to be fearful.

    Nov 6, 2012
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    • londonwestman1

      Or we could try to earn respect. Or give respect in the hope that it might be returned. Or just give it, anyway.

      Nov 6, 2012
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    • damselfly

      No, come on! Wouldn't you want to wear a T-shirt like that? And have stickers? What's the matter with you all? T-shirts and stickers, life doesn't get any better than that

      Nov 6, 2012
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    • DenteAvvelenato

      Also multiple websites and fora !!!

      Nov 6, 2012
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    • damselfly

      ... and boycotting products! Don't forget that. Tampons manufacturers better be prepared for a slump

      Nov 6, 2012
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    • ladyblue848

      So true. Respect is not something to be demanded. It is something to be earned. And what a lot of obnoxious, bossy, condescending, people don't realize is is that often times the only way to earn respect is to exhibit it.

      Nov 6, 2012
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    • ladyblue848

      "No, come on! Wouldn't you want to wear a T-shirt like that? And have stickers?"

      And homemade signs you paint and hang over your bed, or the doorway into your house. Whoopeee - what fun!!!!

      Nov 6, 2012
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    • cameronr

      Londonwestman - Yup, that's what everyone should do.
      Damselfly - You gotta be kidding.
      Ladyblue - They can recruit you for the memorabilia department. You have some new ideas. Hey! This could all be a plot to sell T-shirts.

      Nov 7, 2012
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    • ladyblue848

      and bumper stickers, buttons, hand painted signs, and maybe underwear and sweatpants that say it instead of saying "PINK".

      Nov 7, 2012
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  • ladyblue848

    BUT WAIT - doesn't this go against what KR and others claim MGTOWs are about? Don't they think MGTOWs are men who don't commit to women, don't get married to, or live with women, and don't have children. I don't see anything about that here, so either they are wrong or the original MGTOWs didn't know what they were really about. I can tell you this much . . . if some dude who lived alone and never seemed to have a girlfriend or woman in his life came after either one of my sons and wanted to "help them to grow up to be a man" I would probably beat him off with a stick because his true intentions would seem VERY suspicious (I smell pervert).

    Oct 15, 2012
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    • CopperCoil

      This is funny. Not sure sticks are very dissuasive though in this day and age. I think you should upgrade to a taser.

      Nov 6, 2012
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    • gumshoejane2

      Ladyblue, I so agree with you.
      I wouldn't want my son anywhere near these wierdos.

      Nov 6, 2012
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  • Kittychanel

    They don't need to worry..chivalry is pretty much dead anyway.

    Oct 9, 2012
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    • DenteAvvelenato

      except they blame women for it being gone

      Oct 9, 2012
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    • Kittychanel

      Because we got all independent and stuff? lol
      Some women may not like the open the door for you pull the chair out treatment. I for one do. Depends on the woman I guess. But thats no reason to pull the plug on the whole thing.

      Oct 9, 2012
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    • DenteAvvelenato

      if they do those things to be nice... then I don't mind if they do those things as some way of entitling themselves to having sex then NO THANKS

      Oct 9, 2012
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    • Kittychanel

      Of course...bad intentions should pave the way to their own hell

      Oct 9, 2012
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    • wastom

      Chivalry will never be dead as long as I am alive. Women should be honored, respected and obeyed, not treated as weak. In pulling out a chair there is no implication that a woman cannot do it herself, she shouldn't have to. More, women should expect men to be attentive and responsive.

      Oct 9, 2012
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    • ladyblue848

      I have never heard a woman tell a man not to open a door for her or things of that nature, or get mad at men for doing things for them. People do things for each other. Women do things for men, and men do things for women. Why does that have anything to do with feminism? When did the majority of feminists ever say "we aren't going to do anything for any man ever again, and we don't want any man to ever do anything for any woman ever again?" These men who think that because of feminism they should stop doing anything for women are idiots, and what they don't realize is that if they stop showing people (male or female) any form of kindness and consideration they are going to stop getting the same in return. They are just perpetuating, expanding, and intensifying all the stupid crap they continuously ***** about by focusing on such insignificant and irrelevant things. They refuse to recognize that the reason women don't want to be with them is not because they are anti-feminists. Its because they are selfish, self-absorbed, narcissistic, uncaring a$$holes who want an excuse that they can put out there for being that way that they think will prevent people for seeing them for what they truly are.

      Oct 15, 2012
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    • gumshoejane2

      mwthw,
      You sir are wonderful. You are a man who has my respect.

      Nov 6, 2012
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    • ladyblue848

      ditto jane

      Nov 6, 2012
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    • wastom

      Jane, Ladyblue, and so many others....you have my respect as well...I am so glad you are here posting and educating.

      Nov 7, 2012
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  • wastom

    WoW! Okay, I'm in favor of feminine women and masculine men...end of agreement. Qualities I want in men: Nurturing Supportive Responsibility Respectfulness Honesty. Qualities I want in women: self-reliant, proud, and independent. RESPECT is EARNED, not to be demanded. Let the men go their own way and leave women and other human beings to run the planet. I want to be with the women.

    Sep 27, 2012
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  • gumshoejane2

    I support these morons going their own way also! Go the way of the dinosaur!
    In my opinion chivalry is masculinity in its purest, most honourable sense, without chivalry there can be no respect for men or masculinity ( my opinion).

    Sep 27, 2012
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  • GarciaMarquez

    I understand vocations have been falling off for years and the chuch is now at crisis point so I understand this call to arms. Nonetheless, the glib reference to inserting one's manhood in boys is disturbing, particularly in the light of the revelations of the last two decades.

    Sep 26, 2012
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    • ladyblue848

      "the glib reference to inserting one's manhood in boys is disturbing" I agree and know exactly what you are saying. But back to this . . . these fools don't seem to be able to recognize that you can be a role model for a boy, and teach him how to grow up to be a masculine man, without being a MGTOW and anti-feminist. In fact by encouraging him to be a MGTOW you are setting him up for an unhappy life where no woman who can love him and have a happy, blissful life with him will want to touch him with a ten foot pole. They are setting them up to be with submissive, dependent, unintelligent women who will latch onto them for reasons other than love, and possibly use them, since those type of women have to have a man in their life to provide them with the things they are incapable of getting for themselves. These anti-feminist men don't seem to recognize that feminism, and women being successful and independent as a result of feminism, is what has provided the ability for a woman to be with a man just because she loves him and not because she needs him for any other reason. Anti-feminist men are constantly deriding women who deceive, manipulate, use, and take advantage of men, while promoting that women be that way by discouraging and condemning female success and independence. They are creating their own negative relationships. They don't realize that a woman who is completely dependent on a man for her survival may not love that man and may just be with him because she has to be, and not because she wants to be. And then when that happens and becomes apparent to them they ***** about the life they have created and blame feminism for women not wanting to be with a man like them.

      Oct 15, 2012
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    • GarciaMarquez

      Yes. That's it. Yes.

      Oct 15, 2012
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  • damselfly

    I am all in favour of instilling masculinity into men. Actually I'd start doing it when they are still boys. Men without masculinity are a complete waste of space

    Sep 24, 2012
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    • wastom

      Masculinity without reason, respect, intellect and work ethic is a waste of mind. Too many men are a waste of space; look at our wonderful macho masculine prison populations.

      Sep 27, 2012
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    • ladyblue848

      I have also instilled masculinity into my sons. What the dumb anti-feminists and promoters of MGTOW don't seem to want to accept is that a masculine man is not a MGTOW. A masculine man usually loves women and wants a family, and isn't an anti-feminist. Their black and white thinking is so silly sometimes.

      Oct 15, 2012
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    • wastom

      Well said ladyblue

      Oct 23, 2012
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    • CopperCoil

      Apparently not a fan of the mangina or the effeminate gay man.

      Nov 6, 2012
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    • damselfly

      @ mwlthw - it's only because a lot of guys absorb the message that says being manly means throwing your weight around and behaving like a *****. Qualities such as honesty, decency and integrity aren't even considered as worth of aspiring to

      Nov 6, 2012
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  • Experienced321

    me, i'm for anything dente thinks is right....my position and im stickin to it...

    Sep 24, 2012
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    • EdieQuinnz

      ^^you have no choice

      Sep 24, 2012
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    • Experienced321

      there it is....

      Sep 24, 2012
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    • CopperCoil

      I've ended up here too. Also, I just don't have the energy to fight her. Her brain is buff.

      Nov 6, 2012
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  • BrainiumCranium

    Man's capacity for idiocy is boundless. Actually I mean humankind but was making a specific case in point.

    Sep 24, 2012
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  • solowing

    There's lots of fodder for comment here, but I'll stick with chivalry. Aside from the fact that chivalry, in the original, medieval sense was simultaneously a construct by the ruling class to keep their dangerous and temperamental militants (knights) in check, and largely a fiction, I've always thought that chivalry in the modern use of the word (i.e. simple politeness) was not a gendered thing. You don't hold the door open exclusively for females, you hold it open for anyone. Otherwise, you're just letting the lady pass so you can stare at her ***.

    Sep 24, 2012
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    • DenteAvvelenato

      well feminist hate has now destroyed all door opening for others.

      I think these 10 steps will ensure a speedy and successful overthrow of the currently too competitive world.

      Sep 24, 2012
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    • solowing

      Funny, I thought it was the electric door that killed chivalry.

      Also, the ten steps reeks of bad marketing major stuff, and aren't they stereotyped as dumb women?

      Sep 24, 2012
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    • DenteAvvelenato

      reeks is a good word

      Sep 24, 2012
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    • DenteAvvelenato

      i think feminism invented electricity according to MrAnti's

      Sep 24, 2012
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    • solowing

      I like good words.

      Sep 24, 2012
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    • DenteAvvelenato

      you are a boss at good wording

      Sep 24, 2012
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  • DenteAvvelenato

    IMO.... it seems to be turning men into baaaaawoys (aka cry baby boys)

    Sep 24, 2012
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