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Should I Just Move On??

I've come to a point where I need help! I caught my ex trying to get into bed with 2 other girls while he was drunk (not an excuse) we broke up that night and I haven't eaten or slept in about 5 days. I've seen him since and had good times but made the mistake of sleeping with him both times...is it best I just move on or do we try and work at it ?
Foolish001 Foolish001 18-21 3 Responses Jan 29, 2013

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Sometimes we fall in love with the person we think they are, but not with who they really are.

I do not know if you will ever read this message, but if
you do, I would like you to read my story : "The Sheep That Turned Into A Lioness". I think you might relate,
although our stories are both very similar and very
different at the same time.

I wish you all the best.

If you were my sister or best friend... well, he'd be beaten down incredibly.

Before that would happen, I'd tell you to move on and don't look back, as difficult as that may be. Honestly, no matter how drunk a dude can be, he is fully aware if he is about to enter a bed with two chicks. There is no "Auto-Correct" mode going on.

And you know, it'll be difficult to move on. If you are feeling a pain in the chest because the thought of leaving him hurts... then that is the path you need to take. Like another person said here, You're young, but at the same time, you deserve to be treated with respect, fully and honestly, no matter how young or old you are.

...I'd still whoop that *** of his though. Not saying you should. You, just heal.

You should not try work at it. He will cheat again. The fact that you slept with him two times after his cheating is ok, since you are young and feelings don't go away that easy, it's a sort of inertia. Find someone more respectful to you.

Thank you! Do I just stop talking to him and everything then?x

I would say, yes. Cut all ties with him if you want to move on. And moving on is hard but it is only a matter of making a decision too. I have learned from personal experience that the more you talk to these kind of people (disrespectful and shameless types) the more damage they will do.

I agree with erleichda. it wont be easy to trust him so soon after that, even if you have "good" times together. If what you want is to move on, do it. It wont be easy but it will be worth it