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I Survived Heartbreak

Should I Just Move On??

By: Foolish001
Written on January 29th, 2013
I've come to a point where I need help! I caught my ex trying to get into bed with 2 other girls while he was drunk (not an excuse) we broke up that night and I haven't eaten or slept in about 5 days. I've seen him since and had good times but made the mistake of sleeping with him both times...is it best I just move on or do we try and work at it ?
By: Foolish001
Age: 18-21
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  • LysanderFremont
    LysanderFremont

    If you were my sister or best friend... well, he'd be beaten down incredibly.

    Before that would happen, I'd tell you to move on and don't look back, as difficult as that may be. Honestly, no matter how drunk a dude can be, he is fully aware if he is about to enter a bed with two chicks. There is no "Auto-Correct" mode going on.

    And you know, it'll be difficult to move on. If you are feeling a pain in the chest because the thought of leaving him hurts... then that is the path you need to take. Like another person said here, You're young, but at the same time, you deserve to be treated with respect, fully and honestly, no matter how young or old you are.

    ...I'd still whoop that *** of his though. Not saying you should. You, just heal.

    Mar 26
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  • EtoLisenok
    EtoLisenok

    You should not try work at it. He will cheat again. The fact that you slept with him two times after his cheating is ok, since you are young and feelings don't go away that easy, it's a sort of inertia. Find someone more respectful to you.

    Jan 29
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    • Foolish001
      Foolish001

      Thank you! Do I just stop talking to him and everything then?x

      Jan 29
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    • erleichda
      erleichda

      I would say, yes. Cut all ties with him if you want to move on. And moving on is hard but it is only a matter of making a decision too. I have learned from personal experience that the more you talk to these kind of people (disrespectful and shameless types) the more damage they will do.

      Jan 29
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    • ericaaidee
      ericaaidee

      I agree with erleichda. it wont be easy to trust him so soon after that, even if you have "good" times together. If what you want is to move on, do it. It wont be easy but it will be worth it

      Mar 2
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