I've been talking to my ex and lately all he talks about is sleeping with me. It's honesty getting annoying and I'm running out of nice ways to say no. He says he has it all planned out of where we would do it and keeps asking me to hang. He says he doesn't wanna be an 18 year old virgin and has to lose it this summer but then says how he's totally not gonna use me and how he loves me. That's total BS. Tonight his new thing is pictures. He says if I send him some I might feel more comfortable to sleep with him. I'm trying to be super nice about it all cuz I do wanna be there for him and help him with his struggles but I don't wanna help with his struggle of not being an 18 year old Virgin. Do you think I'm doing the right thing by being nice about it or would you take me being to nice as leading him on?
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18-21, F
1 Response Aug 18, 2014

You should tell him you are going to be true to yourself first. If you feel uncomfortable about anything, tell him no. Telling him you are not comfortable, or that you don't want to do something is not being mean. It will be okay, good luck :) remember you can always ask GOD for help!😌