Ground Rules: Changes Need To Be MadeMany crossdressers try and look good.
Though some, I think, try hard to diss or downgrade women the way they dress and act.
Some men dress and act like an everyday wh*re and plan it that way.
Unfathomable to me, I don't believe women deserve that at all.
So for me some ground rules so I don't make fun of women, make fun of myself.
I'd start first by wearing clothes that make you look good - look at yourself in a mirror and choose wisely. Study women, especially those with your build and 'imitate' the the ones who like themselves and try to look their best.
Then move on and look in the mirror again, make the most of your curves and the places they are in on your body. You might be surprised and find that they are in the right places.
A daily endeavor and course of study should be that you study other women learn their feminine body movements and imitate them. Don't 'over' imitate or make caricatures out of them. In the process you may actually learn taste and style also.
Also, choose a hairstyle you can live with every day but when dressing as a woman choose a hairstyle that helps to feminize your face. For me, these days, its a short bob style most likely and it has a way of being worn with any clothing (male or female) you choose.
Be natural with your makeup, if you really don't need it for the occasion your going out for then don't use it. When you do, my style is 'the less is better'. Me, most of the time its a flesh colored lipstick or shimmer gloss and a light touch of mascara, nothing over the top. A light perfume works too.
Use a feminine voice and not a drunken sailor or bull horn type voice. Me, my voice is sorta deep, like Suzanne Pleshette if any remember her. Speak soft and use your hands a lot. Works for me!
Maybe the best rule is to love who you are as a woman. I know I do and it makes more things natural and better ... and makes me better in the process.
Be well! Be respectable! Be a happy woman!!!!