Bull

You can talk like this when you include groups such as I hate misogynists and I hate men who abuse women and children in your groups list and not just the I hate misandry and women whom abuse men and children groups. Talk about the pot calling the kettle black! LMAO!

jane,

just go back to kitchen and shut up.

Perhaps she is angry because the groups title implies that all men are entitled to this sort of thing, when few do. Women do not enjoy feeling used.
You seem to be unnecessarily hostile. I feel you owe her an apology.

Really? He seems unnecessarily hostile and owes her an apology ? Did she not state in her post that "who ever thinks like that DESERVES multiple STAB WOUNDS IN THE HEAD?" Why defend such anger? She was wrong in her views, but honest, which I admire. You saying few men are worthy, comes across as a prima Donna with heirs. I, unlike you, think women are with men whom they value. If not, why are they there? And if so, it absulutly is Not degrading in any form to give pleasure/love/care to the man you honor/love. Bowlingguy54 simply called her out. It amuses me to see you defend such poorly directed anger and judgementalism...

ps not everything today's views deems as degrading is. Pull back the layers am you will find the true motivation behind such views.

Pps you are better than this, from what I have read within your words typed. Please let your light shine without condensation and belittlement. Walk/live/speak/act in peace, sister of this life.

No, Gumshoe they're right. I am in the wrong with this situation. Nobody deserves multiple stabs in the head, I was over exaggerating. Everybody has their own opinions, and instead of berating them, I should respect them. Doesn't mean I have to agree with them though, and I don't typically agree with this one. However, my apologies. I over reacted.

No, Gumshoe, they're right. I'm in the wrong, nobody deserves multiple stabs in the head. I don't agree to agree with opinions, I just have to respect them. So, my apologies. It was an over exaggeration. Thank-you though.

Thank-you though :) I am actually so embarrassed with this post :

Okay, I think I have two apologies written. Its because one wouldn't post, but it ended up posting, and now I can't delete the second, and yeah.

Wow rarely ever see anyone admit they are wrong.

Very classy. I always think, it is what we do when we realize we made a mistake that shows our character, and you have character! Your opinion matters, and I thank you for sharing your original post. Why? Because it was raw, in the moment, rage and pure! Keep your passion, I say, and tunnel it to create the world you desire... Hopefully with a beauty and betterment ... And a little less stab wounding.... Soar lady, soar!

Letitsnow,
I actually see your point and agree. I stand corrected. I was coming to the young ladies defence and in so doing neglected the larger picture.
I see now that I may have some anger and hostility harboured deep down. Something to work on for certain.

Petiterebel,
You are very right, absolutely no one deserves multiple stab wounds to the head. I truly do not believe you really meant that when you said that nor do i believe you to be a violent individual.
I do agree with your original statement though that not ALL men deserve bj's, and I do not think there was anything wrong with you stating your opinion.

Gumshoejane2 ( I have always been curious about why you chose that one ),
Defending, often is natural. This one, petitrebel, has so much *****, I think she would take on the world. I have come across a few of your responses on other stories. Most of the time you are on point- but I have seen you too, have *****. And yes I have seen your "anger and hostility" written, seeming to come out of left field. We all have struggles, demons or whatnot, that we are working on. To become aware of more is something not to excited about initially. However, once we start undoing that web, how much weight begins to lift is absolutely blissful. And the learning, my goodness, is powerful. I wish you the best. Thank you for for your words

Wow chocolatekisses, it took a year but you finally did it. Well done! Thanks for saying that they don't deserve multiple stabs in the head. Not many around here will admit they misspoke and I think it's great you did.

Jane, same to you. Now and again you step back and admit your hostility and I think that is great!

Overall, individuals high in narcissism displayed amplified responses to social comparison information, experiencing greater positive affect from downward comparisons and greater hostile affect from upward comparisons

Interesting 12sonsfor1. So what is the person who states their opinion, and does not gain personal value from the responses, either negative or positive, but tries to learn ?

What's this, NOBODY deserves multiple stab wounds to the head? Hmmm...

Damselfly! Haha, I adore you and absolutely enjoy your intelligence and humorous wit!

What?! Dang it! I rated this story up because I thought it was a comedy....so disappointed in myself....

"multiple stabs in the head"...(chuckle) I'll be laughing for a while tonight ;)

*Bows, pleased* Thank you

Oh sorry haha, I'm not so angry anymore. At the time, I don't know why but I was pretty angry at how some people believe in the degredation of women. To me "A man deserves a blow job everyday" degrades the female. I was just furious, but now I'm cool and totally embarrassed!

We all have days like that. No reason to feel embarrassed. : )

Haha, well, thank-you :)

Women aren't objects to sexually please men when ever they want it. It doesn't matter who started this pathetic group, and for what ever reason, this does not stand.

the misconception about sexuality is that you people (and i mean in the larger context "The West") take it too seriously! It is a natural process that follows love and when indulged in ONLY, it has become what we see today! Can i advise most of you to look internally also to that fathomless world of spirituality which deals with all aspects of life! It will help you understand where excatly to look! Do not look at my other posts as they appear because they are meant to meet people and then request them to follow the true path! Whatever way you follow it will all lead to the same answer! All these questions are so mundane and so unimportant in the larger context of life! Open yourself to it and you will receive unfathomless and unselfish love!

......, explain?

better see SRCM.org

Did FireWingedWarrior just tried to educate me on the subject of Dominance and submission? Hahahahaha! Maybe I've been doing it rrrrong for almost 10 years! :-o Tha one twue submissive way: sucking a guy's **** every day... how could I have been so naive, right? ;-p

Sorry guys. You still missed it. Never mind. It has nothing to do with demand. It has everything to do with love, gift and want to make someone else happy. The fact of making someone else happy is so gratifying that nothing else matters. That all I was trying to say about the giver not the reciever.

Though every man doesn't DESERVE that gift, thats also what I'm trying to say. The way you happen to convey a sloppy blow job, into some romantic gift amuses me. No offense, but a blow job, just....,no.

I understand what your saying, but the group is "a man" not "every man". Yes there are undeserving men out there, but if we're only talking about a (single) man I have to ask... Why are you with one that is so undeserving of your love and devotion?

If that's the case, you should find one that is not a looser and makes you feel so happy that you would do anything in your power to make him feel even a fraction of the joy in your heart.

The other possibility is you feel no man could ever be good enough or make you happy enough to deserve even that small daily token of respect and affection. If that is the case then I suspect you are far more arrogant and self-centered than you seem to be accusing people here of being.

petiterebel is a brainwashed feminazi. Don't waste your time with idiots like her.

If your man is a complete ******* he doesn't deserve a blow job every day he deserves a break up/ divorce. Never said perfect, I have my standards, if his reached them he'll recieve his reward.

I'm with chocolatekisses on this one and I'm not in the mood to really get in deep with this praise of sexual service to all men because they have a penis.
Actually, I'm just here to be a ***** about this: don't you mean dopamine? Because the rush of ****** is dopamine-based, unless you use a lot of teeth of course, that way it can become endorphine-based. :-D

When my lover expects a ******* regardless of if I WANT to give him a *******, I usually put a condition on it.
Like that time I only wanted to give him a BJ if I could do it directly after taking a shot of extra hot tabasco sauce... he enjoyed that service for about 5 second, before sprinting to the bathroom in pain. ^_^

Go gurrl.

I stopped reading after you tried to correct me.

Learn human chemistry before trying to look intelligent.

Learn human bio-chemistry before saying stuff about neurotransmitters. :-)

I'm not trying to look intelligent, I tried to have a little fun, while using some intelligence to accomplish that.

You are attempting to make yourself look more intelligent by pretending to know big words and chemical function of the mind.

You are making a fool out of yourself by arguing against something that is not incorrect.

Scarcollection, you and intelligence have nothing to do with each other.

i don't like fake

I knew she was fake, thank-you so much :)

aaww :(. Which one? I'll check :D

pet changed her name ...

Wow! How out of touch is he hey! Women are not only beautiful past 40, they are wise, confident and don't play games. Many men find many 40 plus women attractive. He really should only speak for himself.

exactly! Isn't this the new trend? When young males go for the older women? Haha, don't worry. You're still in the game :D :P

yea cc is now trying to say i lied .. that he didnt say that ... about 40 year old women ....

I find many women over 40 attractive myself. Faith Hill, obviously. So don't put words in my mouth. What I was saying there is that women that age just don't have the power with men that younger women have. There are far fewer men looking to marry women substantially older than themselves than men looking to have a fling with such women.

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hahahaha! You just have to give it to them :)

Hey. gypsyblu, if a man talked about stabbing someone in the head "Would you react by saying "Let's not be judgmental"?

what does a blow job have to with stabbing ?? daaaaaaaaaaaaaa comparing a blow job to stabbing some one in the head is murder..... im rolling in the floor over here on that one : )

CC, do you really think that this young lady meant that she would actually stab someone in the head because of an opinion they hold regarding ********???
She was exaggerating for effect, I don;t have any fear of this young woman hurting anyone and neither should you. It was strong, inappropriate language but I think you are over reacting, really.

This is how I see it. If you keep quiet, use nice words and try not to hurt any feelings, nothing will ever get through. Because if someone doesn't agree they won't even think twice about abusing you. You're better off doing it first.

im beyound feeling hurt these days... ill call some one out on their behavior that i dont agree with or if i think is wrong... but feeling hurt.. naaaaaaa that old nuresy rhyme>>>. sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never huet me.is one of my mottos

well thats good :)

Jane, no, I don't think that. But violent language like that speaks very badly of a person, and you know darn well how you would react if it came from a man.

THANK-YOU! I am glad you understand :)

Sorry for not searching groups up about '***** licking' As a matter of fact I don't believe women deserve such treatment every day. The reason why I was in such an aggressive state was because, it was far to obvious that this group was made by someone who actually believes every man deserves a blow job everyday, probably just because they have a p3nis.

P.S You really shouldn't judge someone based on, not even a paragraph. Seek help.

The group was created by a horny young woman for your information, namely baddiemaddiePA. You jump to the conclusion it was a man and get angry as a result. You have a lot of growing up to do. The group is simply SILLY, that's all. It is not a menace to the female gender.

glad we have comes to terms.

I've cooled off and reading this right now... I must have been very angry that day O.O haha.... : But I still agree with what I said. Just not that angry... :)

We all have god days and bad days. I respect your opinion though i don't necessary agree with you. My question to you is why you made the statement in the first place. There are thousands of statement out so why post on one you doen't agree with lol. Have you had a boyfreind who requested a bj a day lol. If i get 1/ week i'm happy

No no nothing like that. I like to attack the source. It brings out the oppositions opinions which I always never agree with. Uughh.. HAHA. But yeah.

Well in that scenario then yes. But if you mean giving you a blow job every day just because your a guy and you have your needs then no.

just a bit angry.... Hahaha I feel like such an idiot, I'm reading my replies and thinking: I could have totally said something better :(

When I write my opinion on something I never regret it because what I write at that time is me and nothing more. So, be it. You have said what was on your mind with the feelings you had at that time so there is nothing wrong in it. Its fun to have a BJ time to time........ ;-))

I do agree and I like giving bj's but I made a new story. This one was kind of out of hand and didn't have a clear contention. I'm not anti-bj.

I did feel that you are not from the beggining. However, I love BJ but not as the main course!

haha, there's just so many things to try from ;D A bit hard to pick

I just start from the nearest and will reach till the end............ So dosen't matter how many things are there I'll have a taste.......... the best is the taste of..... ;-))

hhmm true, who does know.