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I Think Able Bodied People Should Be Kicked Off Welfare

There Goes the Neighborhood

By: nomoreleeches
Written on June 4th, 2009
Age: 41-45 , Female
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    FrancisKevinWithnail

    Addiction is a choice. Sometimes I drink/use pot/valium too much - but I choose to kid myself that I'm not overdoing it. Nobody else makes my decisions for me. Cider does not forcibly jump down my throat. Drugs get in the body if we choose to take them. Addiction is not an illness. This woman is refusing to take responsibility for her choices and playing victim. I suppose her kid was an accident too.

    May 16
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    nomoreleeches

    Hi ZephyrSin!

    I totally understand the 'invisible handicaps' item. This girl wasn't afflicted with anything, but chose to ruin her life with drugs and alcohol. I now know this for sure because I've met, and spoken to many people who grew up with her. I'm still learning about Aspbergers' Syndrome, thanks to my Veteranarian's son. She told me that he just 'loves it when you come in. He loves to talk to you". I seriously believe that this disease deserves just as much funding as it can get for studies, to hopefully find a cure! It saddens me to hear that you've been a victim of people like my (now ex-) neighbor.

    BEST OF LUCK TO YOU!!

    May 21, 2010
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    ZephyrSin

    I do understand the frustration, but please do be aware that some of us that are on disability have what are considered 'invisible handicaps'. In my case, I have a form of autism called Aspergers Syndrome and also have PTSD because of abuse in my background. I am on Medicare and have in the past received subsidized housing. And it's people like your neighbor that destroy things for those of us that have a valid need for some help.

    May 20, 2010
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    nomoreleeches

    To retrolady1976: GET OVER YOURSELF!! YOU try living next to something like this and I'm sure you wouldn't like it either. I don't consider everyone on welfare as "trash". THIS particular person IS.

    SO SHUT UP!!!!!

    Feb 24, 2010
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    retrolady1976

    Who are you to judge them!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Feb 24, 2010
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    nomoreleeches

    VICTORY!!! The dirtbag and her monsters are OUTTA HERE!! Apparently I wasn't the only one complaining. The stench from her 'never cleaned' bathroom permeated a shared wall and the neighbor on the other side took her a bottle of bleach and said "CLEAN IT!!" I told the landlord I'd shampoo the carpets, at my own expense, as a THANK YOU. Turns out, the new carpeting has to be pulled up and thrown away! So, complaints to 6 different government agencies, plus the landlord, and FINALLY - RESULTS!!!

    Aug 5, 2009
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    theredlady

    I'm sorry you've had to make a decision based on those circumstances. It seems to me the only time stuff gets done about these kinds of situations is when someone gets shot....I wish you better times

    Jun 11, 2009
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    nomoreleeches

    To theredlady,



    Yep, I've talked until my face turned blue and nothing is done. That's why I'm finding a new home. My current neighbors/former friends can just continue to stew in their own juices. I choose to vacate!



    thanks for your comment, though! It's nice to know I've been heard!

    Jun 11, 2009
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    meteorite

    I feel sorry for the kids. What kind of a role model is she?. Reckon you could move to a place with nicer neighbours/better vibes-4 sure. She wont be moving anytime soon.

    Jun 5, 2009
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    theredlady

    She is only getting the support because of her children. Have you tried CPS? If they get her kids, she loses welfare.

    Jun 4, 2009
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