I have been married to my husband for 4 years. I do love my husband but I am not in love with him. He doesn't believe in divorce so we just go on about our lives. I met a police officer that lives near me and who is also married. I have known him for a while before we took it to the next step. Man oh man is the things we do out of this world. My husband is a very traditional person and I am not when it comes to the bedroom. This police officer and I have a ton in common. We have lots of fun when we are together. He is so perfect. I really started cheating because my husband spends most of his time playing World of Warcraft. He doesn't really make time for his daughter and I. I don't have to worry about getting pregnant since I had to have a hysterectomy when I was 21 due to cancer. So that makes it even more fun. What really pushed me over to the cheating world was when he had me check his email and I saw he was sending girls his picture and emailing back and forth. Since then our lives have become 2 different lives, unless we go to his parents house. Then we are a happy married couple. We don't wear wedding rings unless we are at a family get together. So is it a bad thing that I am cheating. Well I don't think so, and I don't feel guilty about it.