What to Do

my husband is 15 years older than me.  he is my second husband and i am his third wife.  me and my ex were together for over 10 years and cheated on me with my current husbands wife at the time.  then i guess my husband now was my rebound.  i got pregnant, we got married.  for half my life i have either been married or in a serious relationship, now i wanna play, have some fun but i wanna come back home to him when i'm done.  im in my 20s and hes in his 40s, he works all the time, sometimes gone all week and gets back home on friday nights.  i dont like being alone.  i have my son that i love and is the best thing i could have asked for.  my husband had his fun as a teenager and in his 2os with his numerous sex partners, so he sowed his wild oats i havent i have slept with 2 men and married both of them.  i dont know what to do,  i love my husband and dont want to hurt him

badwife badwife
26-30
1 Response Mar 18, 2009

Badwife,<br />
You are having normal emotions and desires. You should talk to your husband. If you have a good marriage and family, don't mess that up for a fling. If you can talk to your husband and get him to open up about fantasies and share them with each other, it will help kickstart your sex life. Sounds like you are in a rut and need a good marathon lovemaking session. If you are not happy in your marriage, then be honest to your husband and yourself before moving into playing around. If the fantasy talk kicks off something that strikes your fancy....be patient and have fun. You can play without cheating by yourself without hurting anything too. Hope you get your hearts desire and have lots of fun doing it!