I Would Realy Love An Affair.....

You with someone or you looking for extra fun

Have you had any yet , if not are you going to

I would love to find a lady possibly married lady who is in the same situation as I am, that I can have an affair with.

But it not easy and that simple how and where do you find them

I agree with DakFox. I want to have an affair with another married women, but locating her is next to impossible. Been married for 30 yrs. Been sexless for 4. Didn't think I'd miss it. Guess what, I do. Wife doesn't seem to be intrested anymore. Been looking for yr now. Much harder than I realised. Still looking though

Finding that certain someone is the hard part.

there are sure a lot of us in the same boat !!! wish i could put it togather

Humm, me too!

i am a widowerer if interested contact me

Affairs are fun, you should go for it

im in sydney australia if anyone wants to shair with me?

Affairs are fun!

I respect your life is your own to do as you choose, but you are part of a partnership with someone - Maybe if at the start you could be honest and say (to your partner) "Just so you know, I may have relationships without you knowing while we are together!"Whatever you decide, please could you read my post at the following heading on EP: I Think About Having An Affair

Affairs Are Just Not Fair - Honesty Can Create Different Oppertunities!

and just consider my words.Thank you and good luck!HFranky

Come to me.....

Go for it..

Very lovely and erotic !! I am looking for the same .............a lovely girl single or married :)

I feel the same way..

Hell yes

i have the same issue but only with another girl would i ever

Yes sounds fun !! I feel the same way!!!

I am proceeding to have an affair----Her marriage is like mine,just existing----her husband is doing his own thing,comes home for clean cloths and than heads north. I'm in a sexless relationship.We agree to meet down the road and go slow---we have no intentions to ending our marriages at this time. Sometimes its the only way that it will work one way or the other.

boy there are certainly a lot of responses that dont seem to understand what this is all about,, first,, we want an affairs because there are some basic things missing in our relationship.. ,,the comments about one night stands are just plain off the mark,, there are no longings with the one night stands,, we who want an affair are looking for intimacy, clossness,, and those elements that are missing,,

I love it too. I am not single unfortunately. Been married for 17 years but would really like to have an affair.

I have had my share of one night stands, a nd while doing so I keep trying to get my wife to have a 3 some with anyother man. She would not give an inch on that, so I just keep on the one night flings. Wam Bam thanks you mam. Over 20 years I would say that I had a fling at least once a year. Our marriage was going no where, until she finally agreed to try a three way in Las Vegas. She got ****** by one heck of a nice pro stud, with me being right there to enjoy the spoils. After he left, we had the most wonder full sex that we had ever had. The next day we talked about it, and we both felt that it brought both of us closer together. Now we have sex at least once ever other month with a stranger. No attachment for either one of us. Just pure go old sex. No love, just enjoyment. Before this all happened, I know she had sex with an old boy friend, and I am sure that she knew about me. This has never been brought by either one of us.

Sober up, Young Soul. Affairs profoundly damage not only your family and those that love you the most (including any children you may have), but also the families of the people you potentially step out with. Believe it or not, we are our brothers keepers, and owe a duty of care to others in our society, even if we don't know them. So you want some excitement in your life? Do some charity work, help some disadvantaged kids, the impoverished or the sick in a hospice home. You'll find that by selflessly giving something away you getting permanent, lasting peace rather than the fleeting thrill of deception (which, by the way, will ultimately be uncovered).

Add me:)

There is another possibility... No one has mentioned, I have been married 10 years now, I love my wife and she loves me. However as much as that is great and all we are intimate maybe 4 times a year. This is mainly due to her health, she cannot enjoy intimacy due to pain from degenerative bone issues in her neck. It is not what you call a "turn on" for me and especially not for her. So now I am still healthy and have always had a strong sex drive and I LOVE to please my mate with a good hard pounding after a bath etc.. Now I ********** nearly every day instead. I am not sure I want the full affair but I would enjoy finding someone online to share some intimacy with maybe meet that person if it seems right. I have realized that sex is not as important as what we have and I am afraid to lose that. BUT, I will not put the burden on her, she had no say in her health issues. So that said, I left with few choices.

I will not leave her as she needs me and I need her, even w/out intimacy,

I either go without now or ??? If I can find a FWB in a similar situation it may allow all of us to enjoy some of what time is left. I have thought about this for over 4 yrs now, it is not easy to find that special lady that 'gets it' I am not a bad person / adulterer etc.. But I need a way to get through this time preserving our quality of life somehow.

Thanks for listening, try not to judge me to harshly... That's Gods job. M

Hi, i would love to chat to you about all this..! Im 32, and very bored! Really don't think you'd be disappointed.. X

It would be so exciting!!! I feel monogamy places a strain on the human soul.. Tat said I would never ever want to hurt anyone that way....

Few affairs remain secret. Are you willing to face the consequences, are you willing to lie, you cant have an affair without lying. Oh yes you might even feel guilty.

I love secrets also.



I am having a secret affair with myself.



I would not want to get hurt again, so I will settle for myself and my EP family.



I am secretly telling my soul to people who I do not know and it feels good to get some stuff off my chest without being negatively judged and criticized. Besides most people in the real world act like they don't know or understand what you are talking about or what you are going trough. I might be talking to some of them and they don't know it. But they will not tell because they are scarred.



Have fun with your secret affair. Good luck and be safe.