Always Looking

Even after I first got married I was always looking and fantasizing about other women and old friends I knew.

Now after 22 years and about 1.5 years with no sex I am actively flirting and looking for an affair. I feel it is wrong, but I also feel this is something I want and desire. I love my wife,in the sense that she is been a part of my life for so long. I am not "in love" with her. She has stated many many times we are more like room mates. I guess it has finally been beatin' into my thick skull. Too late now.
DanManOR DanManOR
46-50, M
3 Responses May 22, 2012

Why not get a divorce or at least a trial separation? Don't you want to have the chance to fall in love again?

Would things change if you waited another half year before you become actively flirting.

Really? Why? After another 6 months should I wait yet another 6 months?

I don't know. I'm just curious why 1.5 years? others had it after 10 yrs. While few had it a year.

I have tried but most site want a credit card to view profiles or search. Even though they claim to be free.<br />
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I appreciate your positive comments a lot.