I have been married for 15yrs. and been with the same man for 17yrs. Yes, I was a virgin when I met my husband. He cheated on me the third year and I found out about the affair on the tenth year of marriage. Yeah, crazy right. Well our love life has never been the same. I have friends that talk about their experiences and all I do is sit there and listen. Am I crazy to want to try something with someone else? I feel terrible for having these feelings.