On The Fence In Indianapolis...I love my wife but feel frustrated at the fact she is the only woman I've been with. I have gained a lot of confidence over the last 10 years and realized that I had several missed opportunities in my late teens and early twenties. (before I met my wife and got married). She has mentioned on more than one occasion that I could benefit from having an experience outside of our marriage. I started down this path once but she was not able to bring herself to be open to the idea. She thought she could but in the end she just couldn't. I was not surprised and completely sympathized with her. I told myself (and her) this was ok and I just had to get past the idea of ever being with another woman. This was 2 years ago and I just cannot get past the thought, thus I came across this site and thought it would at least help to get my thoughts out there. I have no desire to ever leave my wife but feel trapped sexually. Thoughts?
smotherchad 31-35, M 3 Responses 1 Aug 9, 2012