Love My Husband, But......
My husband and I rarely have sex and he is not into anything other than "normal" sex. I, on the other hand, am pretty kinky and willing to try just about anything. I have always been this way and I think my husband thought that once we were married, my desires/fantasies would go away. I, on the other hand, thought that once we were married, I would be able to get him to do more than have sex in the missionary position.
For me, the longer this goes on, the more I want to get out of this and into a relationship with someone who loves sex, and everything that goes with it, as much as I do. I do love him and even thinking about leaving him is scary....we have kids, house payments, car payments.....but I continually think about having an affair, finding someone who will do things to me, do things with me, that my husband will not.
I'm glad there are websites like this, so that people like me know we are not alone.