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I Think About Having An Affair

I Understand

By: WoWwhataMind
Written on October 22nd, 2009

In reading your article, I began to think comments like, why would I want to be in a relationship with someone who is not emotionally available. I will not pretend that I have vast experience in creating healthy relationships, but do have a degree on what I do not want to create anymore because of my own part in the doing. It is hard to create, communicate and be vulnerable. As a man growing up I learned so many behaviors that it is no wonder how I came to be something I was not. Today at the age of 44, I can see hope for the true kinship that I yearn form myself and hope to attract that from a woman if its meant to be. The hard times is being alone, scared of living alone or never finding love again. Those are my thoughts that I make efforts to release out to the universe and believe that I am an asset and a value to a loving nurturing relationship. I just choose today not to violate my own integrity to run away from the situation that is just not working.

By: WoWwhataMind
Age: 41-45 , Male
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  • imathinkin
    imathinkin

    I like what you have written so far. I would hope that you would elaborate on those comments that came to mind, and write some more, such as:



    ~ why would I want to be in a relationship with someone who is not emotionally available?

    ~ what I do not want to create anymore (communication and be vulnerability)

    ~ behaviors learned as a man growing up (how you came to be something you were not...and why was that?)

    ~ what it's like for a man being alone, scared of living alone or never finding love again

    ~ In what way to you consider yourself an asset and what values do you, as a male bring to a loving nurturing relationship?



    It's good to know what you guys are thinking and to gain understanding. Please, do release those thoughts out to the universe. And please speak more on your views of potentially violating your own integrity and how you deal with a situation that is just not working. I see it's been a while since you have been online. Please message me or gesture me if you post. I for one am interested, and I think others would be as well.

    Aug 6, 2010
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