Show Me Don'T Tell MeI have always been like this. It has nothing to do with the fact my husband's actions have always meant he hated me. Before all that, it was the same.
I have never been affected by sweet talk, compliments and praise.
It just doesn't resonate with me. Not sure why, even in college when guys would try to sweet talk me, I really could care less and I still feel the same. I would much rather see someone show me what they mean instead of tell me.
Of course this can't be realistic in every relationship, but with personal relationships with friends and such it can. Don't blow fairy dust up my behind, just show me how you feel.