Any Time Sex Is Enhanced, It's Healthy

Not only, can it be, it usually is, IMO. Providing both sides agree, that is.

When I am on the Dom side, it makes me think more, brings out my creativity more. Let's see if I do this, how will she react? Hmmmm . . . . In short, it's hotter than plain old vanilla sex.

When I'm on the Sub side, well, it's also hot because you don't really know what's going to happen. Kind of like a roller-coaster, or surfing. When is the next wave coming? No one knows, only the Dom/me knows. Like a movie where you don't know what's going to happen next.

So, the whole thing is akin to ratcheting up your excercise program from a short jog to a 10K or more. Or adding more weights to your gym program. Or swimming more. Or taking more advanced courses at a University.

It's like going to a Grad School of Sex.

Oh, now I know why it's called BDSM. It's like a title or something. Doctor of BDSM.

Label on the office door of John Smith: John Smith, PhD, M.D., DBDSM, Esq.

Mui Kewl.
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Aug 3, 2011