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Clamps and Clips

There are a variety of clams and clips to be bought from Sex Shops.




If your slave is new to this kind of punishment five minutes can seem like an eternity: you need to exercise judgement, 15 minutes is quite safe. However we are all different, some can bare far longer, others not so long.

Fire and Ice




Can be applied to most areas of the body, if you use candles remember not to have them close to the body, let the wax drip from a distance above. As the slave becomes used to it, then move closer but take care : use BEESWAX candle not "wax candles" made of pariffin / kerosene.

Ice can be used, and may safely be placed in ***** or ***, or held against nipples. Again take care remember ice is very cold.




Electrotorture.

Electric shock can alter the rythm of the heart, being fatal. You MUST look into what you are doing and take great care. DO NOT try to make home made machiney for electrotorture: there are many resonably priced kits. This play can be fun, GET SAFE EQUIPMENT, because you could kill your slave if you do not follow the rules.




Knife play

Can be fun, exciting and thrilling, but be careful your knife is not too sharp, you could potentionally slash, or stab your slave, and may just kill her.

Anal Play/ scat and ****

Anal sexual play can be great fun, but here is a warning:




Your *** is like your mouth ***** or ****: a great place to get an infection, so you must be sure you know your parner in fun is clean otherwise a trip to the STD cliic, or doctor could be at least embarrasing, if not life destroying. 

That said:

Me personally I engage in enemas, scat play, **** play and I also drink **** and have had no problems. Some people are eaters of ****, you MUST know your partner as there is a great deal of disease in ****. I myself am NOT a **** eater.




Some folk start with butt plugs before anal sex, training themselves into accepting objects in their ***. Wirth cinsidering if you are worried, there are a variety of small to huge butt plaugs available, start small ;)

Enemas

Some people who do anal sex feel they should have an enema first. If you intend to do this, or whgage in enana play, you MUST learn how to do an enema safely.

Enema how to
How the equiptment works 
DIY Enema




You MUST KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING. YOU CAN SEVERLY INJURE IF NOT KILL SOMEONE IF YOU **** UP, AND YOU WILL HAVE A HARD TIME EXPLAINING YOURSELF TO THE LOCAL LAW OFFICIALS.

Make sure you wash your hands huh?




Anal Sex

For me personally, I have been having anal sex for over twenty years. Cleansliness is next to godliness is my watchword. My advice: clean yourself before and after - a THOROUGH was and if you have never had anal sex you must use LUBRICANT, and if you are a first timer, take it slowly, and if you are a man taking anal for the first time - be careful don't be too vigorous the first few times, use plenty lube.




Dildoes, Vibrators and *******

Make sure dildoes, vibrators or hands are clean. Warning: if pregnant, don't got to hard - and don't fist.

*******: No long nails, or jewellery ok?




Easy does it : and anally, be careful, your *** is not made of steel, and can if not careful can RUPTURE, OK? Lots of lube.

Bondage

I love bondage, but I don't buy "BDSM" kit, we buy gear that is cheap and cheerful.

Example : Rope.




BDSM rope £10 for 30 feet/ 10 Metrets
Sash Cord - 300 feet/ 100 Meters fo £20 on Ebay.

The sash cord is rougher, but ties more tightly, and is FAR more cost effective. This is true anout much BDSM gear, there is a great deal of mark - up by suppliers for  the fetish market.




Bondage tips:

Make sure you are skilled at the bondage you do. It should be snug and tight fitting (in MY opinion make up your own mind). DON'T tie knots so they interfere with pulse points, as this can be seriously dangerous. I would keep a knife or blunt end sissors close to hand just in case of the need to quicly release the sub/slave.




My Master says: never leave a sub/slave tied up on her own, and check for numbness or discolouration of the skin

To all submissives: never never let anone tie you up if YOU DO NOT KNOW THEM. You really could be putting your LIFE in the ir hands LITERALLY. Masters: you must know your slave, she could potentionally cry rape on you if she becomes dissatisfied.




If you are new, slowly slowly : build up, experiment, have fun.





owmerofsevdaslave2 owmerofsevdaslave2
41-45, M
2 Responses Dec 30, 2012

Very nice write up. Thank you for this!

Sir, this and your other "recent" posts are good advice for anyone interested in the lifestyle, and I appreciate the time and effort taken to provide this information about the various elements of the lifestyle as well as the risks and pleasures involved