Trust

My first boyfriend introduced me to some light bondage. He bought these soft ropes from a sex toy website and used them to tie my ankles and wrists. Sometimes I love feeling vulnerable and being submissive during sex. It's fun being spanked and "choked" a little. I enjoyed being gagged every once in a while.

When done between two consenting adults who trust each other I think that sort of play during sex can be a healthy thing. It's like a trust exercise.

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22-25, F
2 Responses Jan 25, 2010

This is the same guy who treated you like crap for three years? Choking? Don't let someone do those things to you.

Trust and love are the most important part of any relationship. I find that bdsm partners feel everything evern more intensely, are more aware of each other's needs and it can be an even more beautiful pairing as a result.