I find it ridiculous how nice guys are more likely to get snubbed than a**holes. I think that "Nice guys finish last" line is BS. Why is it people tend to take someone's kindness for weakness. Last time I checked, a person who is nice is not same as someone who doesn't stand up for himself. I don't understand why people praise the mean-spirited. It seems that many people have a skewed sense of what it means to be strong. To hear from people that being mean is encouraged is disheartening. What ever happened to attract more bees with honey than with vinegar?