it shows that I'm vulnerable and I hate being vulnerable
ashleysokolik ashleysokolik
16-17, F
1 Response Aug 19, 2014

Hi Ashley, crying only shows your human. Complete with the emotions that we were born with. I'm 63 and used to think like you. Mostly because I'm a man and men aren't supposed to cry but now I realized even though not on the outside I still hurt like hell inside. Only thing is if there were anyone near me who cared about what was happening to me, they didn't know I needed help. Now, I cry and am not ashamed of it. People know when I'm hurting and there are good people out there who understand and willing to console you , if necessary. Don't conditition yourself to become a machine. Don't be afraid to show how you really feel inside. That way people won't think your just cold and unaffected. Your boyfriend won't have to try and read your mind either. Best wishes