I've been on EP a few weeks and have battled to get the balance. I was initially a bit obssessed - I got so far behind at work I was starting to wonder if anyone would notice...! And I was bringing my same old hang ups with me. When I wasn't online I was thinking about what I could add next time I was. I was getting all antsy about what people thought of me. I was getting paranoid about no-one reading my stories or adding comments.
It suddenly makes sense now and I'm viewing it as my little space to vent and meander on about anything I like without being judged - and if you do judge me you can shove the proverbial "It" right up your bottom.