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Good Hearted People

It doesn't seem fair. People who always try to do the right thing, give out of the kindness of their heart and believe in forgiveness are always getting the short end of the stick. They always get manipulated, used and taken advantage of. It's always the narcissistic type of individuals that seem to always profit.

It makes you wonder....what's the point of being good? Good people deserve to have happiness more than anyone else....why is it that they are the ones who are always unhappy?

If karma was real...don't you think that morally good and generous folks would be receiving some good luck? They don't.
hadyourchance hadyourchance 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 15, 2013

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I completely agree. IDK wtf is up... I am at the point where I hate life and it hates me right now, so I know how you feel. And I hate that we feel like this, bc it's not who I am. It's who I've been PUSHED into being to SURVIVE. And I hate that too... It's not who we really are!!! It's not fair! It totally sucks!

As advanced as human beings are, you would think they know to exercise the golden rule more often. Instead, they default to their animal instincts most of the time. What I mean by that is that there are two types of people in this world. The conqueror and the conquered.

Most people fall into the conquered category. I was too one of them.

Now, I am a nice guy that has the ability to hunt the hunter or conquer the conqueror... at least most of parts of my life.

I think you can be nice and not be taken advantage of. At least not chronically. If someone treats you wrong, let them know how you feel. If they continue to do that, let them go and move on.

Sometimes it's not that simple.

I know that it tough when our hearts are involved, and we should always try to make a relationship work through by trying to reach that person, but there is only so much we can do. I'm still learning about all this myself, but at some point you have to fish or cut bait.

I don't remember telling you my story. How come you know it so well? :(

It's my story too :(

I hear you, You know what they say about good guys...

Yea...all good guys think they finish last. Not completely true. Good girls do as well.