Am I, Or Am I Not?

get some lesbian flicks and enjoy lol

I have the same problem. I have admitted to bein bi curious but, I want to experiment with it, BUT I don't want my boyfriend to be there. The thought of a ********* does turn me on but I really don't think I could handle seeing my boyfriend "doing" somebody else. Any ideas on that one?

I have been there but I feel i should state dont do anything with just anyone. You should at least be attracted to the other person. Communication is a must, you need to be able to do things when youre ready and comfertable. Being a bi-sexual person is not much different than being strait. You just have more options out there. Take your time. Start simple & keep it simple you are a person looking for another person. It's not so scary when you learn to relax & just be you.

UM hi. i see that so far all the comments left have been left by men(hornballs) and they are obviously not serious. I am a woman who loves men but i think women are beautiful. For a while i was afraid to tell anyone even after having my first encounter with a girl. I was kind of embarrassed by it. But as i got older i saw that the attraction towards women was still the same. Eventually i told my close friends in a joking type of way just to see the reaction and now they all know. I love girls i think they are so gorgeous and delicious. Not really in a relationship type of way though just for fun...am i being understood here??? lol

JEZZAB3LL, I feel I must point out that only one poster besides me claims to be a man. It definitely wouldn't be surprising to see lots of posts by horndogs seeking what they probably will never have, but please don't jump to such a conclusion before you have evidence.

I would like to take this time to point out that I myself have a very feminine mind, and almost entirely only identify with women despite having a male body. And from what I have seen, we women aren't really much less "horny" than men, if you will, rather it's partly female nature and partly society that both keep us more reserved about such feelings, while both male nature as well as society pressure guys to feel it's not only okay but even a good think to show off their sexuality.

Seriously girls, take a moment and think...

What if all your girl friends openly talked about their crushes in public, as well as their relationships. And then they would make remarks to guys who they thought were attractive. You might feel it was strange at first, but over time you'd probably start joining in, wouldn't you?

I feel the same way...soooooo attracted to guys! But, i also like to pleasure myself and the only videos that get me going are the ones of girls with girls, or girls giving head. So i don't know if that makes me lesbian or not?

I think it's perfectly normal. Women seem to be more attuned to the pleasures of the flesh. Men are more competitive and business/sports oriented. In the past few decades, more and more men are cleaning up their appearance and becoming more openly sensual. I think that could be one of the reasons why gay and bi men get so much love from the opposite sex. ("Metrosexual" men).

That being said, you should think twice about making a move, if you or the other person involved will have their feelings hurt by an intimate encounter.

What I think it's happening with women is that there are so many men that can get beautiful women so easily that if you are not one of those they won't even take the time to get to know you...it is really sad..but it is true. And then when you finally start going out with a man, they look at soo many women, and have magazines, and love women women women so much (like little dogs when a ***** is with her period!) that we start noticing how beautiful we women really are, and there are a loooot more beautiful women than men...men...mmm...unfortunately very few, and if they are good looking, most of them are idiots..so it doesn't compensate, they have a better deal than us...but not because of that it means that we are lesbians..it just means that we need to make men value us not just because we are beautiful creatures...

just do what makes you feel the best. you will figure it out!

we're all a little bi by nature. i'm 99.9% pro-men, but i think women just look hotter in the nude...no shame

Point blank, if you cannot imagine going down on a girl, you might play a little, but you are just bi-curious. There is nothing wrong with curiosity, get out there and talk to some girls! :) That's the way I did it... and it went well, though I figured out that ultimately I wanted to be with a man for the rest of my life, and I'm pretty happy about it.. go find out what your happy ending is. :)

I don't know, and I don't care any more. Some of my best friends are bisexual. Perhaps everyone is, though I don't think so because there's still so much stupid reactions around. Why should one need to choose? My college years are over, although I'm still stuyding. What I do know is that a good relationship should be much more than sex, and good sex is there to be enjoyed. I don't think that human kind has devolved into its present state without some good reason. I can't accept the reasoning that anything than the prescribed norm is wrong, nor do I think that keeping oneself to old fashioned morals is wrong either. The Dutch say if you don't accept men kissing in the street as normal then don't come to Holland. I know that family values are still important there too, and that anything more than the show of affection like the simple kiss would be wrong in their eyes too. It's all about just tollerance and respect, I guess. And enjoyment, of course.

I do have those thoughts too occasionally.I feel like I'm attracted to men, but I found out at the same time I like women better. I mean, I found women can be extremely sexy, but I keep on wondering what's so sexy about men? so..erghh..what a confusion..(._.")

When i quit trying to figure it all out and let go of LABELS!!!...then i was finally "FREE TO BE ME" and the confusion left and the "what are people gonna think?" was lifted and it's between me and my creator and my creator created me just like i am. a human enjoying all of the beauty of creation and embracing the fact all humans need to be connected to someone who enhances their life. With this experience... i see and enjoy beauty in abundance in people and things i never saw before! and yes sometimes i just want to TOUCH IT, SMELL IT ETC.!

Its a complicated decision. Many people feel the need to put a strict label on themselves, and it seems thats where you are. I am bisexual- openly to those I am close with, not so much to the world. You may find you're attracted to women, and men, or you may find that your attraction to women comes and goes, maybe depending on your views on men at the time?( i know when im pissed at the way a guy treated me im more apt to pay attention in the other direction) at any rate the only thing you need is to be comfortable with yourself.

See an attractive woman you don't want to stop looking at, don't stop.
just accept that that is what you want. if you decide you want to experiment, experiment. you don't need to classify yourself, just make yourself happy.

You're at a point where you are atleast bi-curious..the only thing to do is decide what you are comfortable with trying/ and or pursuing to see if your curiosity leads to you enjoyment, or solidifies your heterosexuality.