Am I, Or Am I Not?

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You have the same problem as me. You don't have to but it would be good if you just admitted to yourself that you are bi curious or questioning. Because it's true. You are questioning your sexual orientationand are curious about the same sex. I really want to experiment.

I have the same problem. I have admitted to bein bi curious but, I want to experiment with it, BUT I don't want my boyfriend to be there. The thought of a ********* does turn me on but I really don't think I could handle seeing my boyfriend "doing" somebody else. Any ideas on that one?

We think that most people are bisexual to some degree. Meaning right person right circumstances, there is an attraction. Whether or not someone wants more than that fleeting feeling is individual. Our advice is don't hold yourself back because of any societal constraints but live life to the fullest, safely, and happily. As far as the woman who is leery of a 3some, Trust is an important part of any relationship and if you trust your mate it should not be an issue. We are polygamous. I am very bi while my husband would probably only ever get it on with a man if it was one of his alltime heroes, (boys are weird). Finding women for sexin a 3some is easy we are having a hard time finding one to stick around and join the family.

I have been there but I feel i should state dont do anything with just anyone. You should at least be attracted to the other person. Communication is a must, you need to be able to do things when youre ready and comfertable. Being a bi-sexual person is not much different than being strait. You just have more options out there. Take your time. Start simple & keep it simple you are a person looking for another person. It's not so scary when you learn to relax & just be you.

Bi-curious feelings and behavior is very common in women. Your boyfriend would love you way more if you let him in on a *********. You just have to make sure he knows that the main girl he'll be focusing on is you. The other girls are just there for looking, no fondling. But you can. Sounds unfair, but he'd probably be far happier just to have the chance to be there, even if he just got to watch you with another woman.

UM hi. i see that so far all the comments left have been left by men(hornballs) and they are obviously not serious. I am a woman who loves men but i think women are beautiful. For a while i was afraid to tell anyone even after having my first encounter with a girl. I was kind of embarrassed by it. But as i got older i saw that the attraction towards women was still the same. Eventually i told my close friends in a joking type of way just to see the reaction and now they all know. I love girls i think they are so gorgeous and delicious. Not really in a relationship type of way though just for fun...am i being understood here??? lol

Completely understood! Lots of people have "desires" but the "desire" isn't for a relationship. It's more about exploring the possibilities.

JEZZAB3LL, I feel I must point out that only one poster besides me claims to be a man. It definitely wouldn't be surprising to see lots of posts by horndogs seeking what they probably will never have, but please don't jump to such a conclusion before you have evidence.

I would like to take this time to point out that I myself have a very feminine mind, and almost entirely only identify with women despite having a male body. And from what I have seen, we women aren't really much less "horny" than men, if you will, rather it's partly female nature and partly society that both keep us more reserved about such feelings, while both male nature as well as society pressure guys to feel it's not only okay but even a good think to show off their sexuality.

Seriously girls, take a moment and think...

What if all your girl friends openly talked about their crushes in public, as well as their relationships. And then they would make remarks to guys who they thought were attractive. You might feel it was strange at first, but over time you'd probably start joining in, wouldn't you?

I know how you feel, I love women. But when I see a shemale, I want her so badly. I've tried to stay off the sites, but that is not working. I don't like the gay man look, but the woman look turns me on.