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My First Gay Experience

I always thought i wouldn't even think about being gay or bi, but my addiction to *****, which I'm not ashamed of,  brought me to gay, bi and transsexual ****. Now, I've fallen out of love with the female body and can only think about men and penises! I thought this might be bi, but now I'm thinking I could be gay. There's a guy I know at my college and well...I like him, but don't know if I could actually go through with it. I've also only kissed girls but never had sex with one (which I am ashamed of).

I dunno...it just doesn't seem like me...if anyone has any advice then it would be appreciated.

dmb19 dmb19 16-17 23 Responses Jan 2, 2009

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Id say from exp to you is go for it ,say to ur bi mate whats it like with a guy and think he will get the drift you want to try it .all best .gaylord7

It will overly-complicate your life.<br />
You want a wife, kids, family life?<br />
Do you want to feel compelled to lie to your kids if they start asking tough questions to answer when they get older?<br />
Do you want them to have risky sex?<br />
What about diseases -- both you ...and later, them, if they follow your ways?<br />
-- Some things to think about.

Well, you posted in January. How are you doing now????

Go 4 it !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! JB PPL

give it a try if you dont like it then stick with women

I wish I could meet you. I'd love to find out what being with a guy is like, but I haven't had any luck finding someone.

Try it you'll like it. I waited more than 45 years and still enjoyed it! Still like women but like to orally service men...I am in Virginia Where are you?

i am also gay so i get it...i think u should try it...tell someone u trust...maybe even tell this guy...

be loving to him and tell him straight you are bi and ask him to try being your friend and hope you are lucky. all the best, xxx

be loving to him and tell him straight you are bi and ask him to try being your friend and hope you are lucky. all the best, xxx

be loving to him and tell him straight you are bi and ask him to try being your friend and hope you are lucky. all the best, xxx

Thanks a lot guys!<br />
Unfortuantely I am a bit older and wiser but im still in the same problem. I have a girlfriend but it feels all wrong and I dont have the courage to ask a guy out and try stuff...thanks anyway.

It is clear that your inexperience in the sexual realm is creating the confusion. **** is simply fantasy and will just confuse your thinking further. Not being reality it will not assure you of your orientation. <br />
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My suggestion would be to is to get engaged in a sexual liaison with a woman first and if then the yen for male still remains strong proceed in that direction.<br />
In any case without an actual sex life how will you ever find the proper fulfillment.<br />
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I wish you well in this.

You will never know unless you try. I know people who are bi-curious or even gay-curious. They try it, and then make up their minds which way they want to go in their lives.<br />
It is your live, but if you don't try it and allow it to remain dormant within you, you will regret it later.<br />
It's your choice, your life, your sexual orientation.<br />
I wish you all the best and only ask that you keep me posted which way you do finally travel.

when you are young you have thoughts about a lot of things, thats normal and how its is supposed to be and when you have many hormones raging everything can be a turn on sexually-- when the time is right to have sex with either gender you will be able to tell which you prefer by the way they make you feel if it feels right then -- no need to lable yourself one or the other or this way or that -- not necessary -- just be open to what life brings you -- best wishes !

I would reccomend you try women first. You will be much happier. There is someone for everyone

As an oldie, I think we all have lusts for both sexes.<br />
But we find "the other one" a bit daunting, cos they think a littkle different from us.<br />
Try both, is all i can say.<br />
I f you truly care for another, that is the one for you.<br />
Caring is the big thing, not jst where you put your ****** 1<br />
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Cheers

It is fine, you seem like you are drifting just a tad there hun. Pull yourself together, keep on trucking.<br />
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That is what I would have said to you, had I known you then.

If you've never had se.x with a female how can you ay your gay, bi or straight?> I'd try both and then maybe both at the same time and then see how you feel. If your like me (truly bi) then you'll like both and will be satisfied with se.x with a male or female.

If thats how you feel, go for it. You will just feel worse if you do nothing about it. Maybe you can find someone who feels the way you do.

i am in the same boat with you, except i am a girl.<br />
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i am of no help.

i am in the same boat with you, except i am a girl.<br />
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i am of no help.

Do what works 4 U !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Go 4 it I am 61 and still think about TRANSSEXUALS all the time !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!