The Ex!!!

So my Ex boyfriend from atleast 4 years ago, got in touch with me again, and we have been talkin lately.   We've been out a couple of times in the last 2 weeks or so, for cute walks, and what not. 

Last night, a few friends and I went to the drive-in and he tagged along. We ended up sittin together the whole night, holding hands, cuddling and being cute!!   At the end up the night, he walked me to my car, and kissed me good night.

I promised myself I'd never fall for him again. He makes me so nervous and is soooo quiet and boring. I am such an outgoing, energetic person, and he is the complete oposite!   How can I stop these feelings without breaking his heart again?
chateone chateone
18-21, F
6 Responses Mar 29, 2007

Take a moment to remember why he is an ex and what led to him being the ex before your consider trying this again...it's always like a honeymoon in the beginning. It's when the honeymoon is over that really counts. Do you see him hanging around after the honeymoon is over.

Technofreak,<br />
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You can see the bad pattern and wrote about it very clearly. I don't see anything in your story for YOU. The time to draw the line was a while ago.

Technofreak,<br />
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You can see the bad pattern and wrote about it very clearly. I don't see anything in your story for YOU. The time to draw the line was a while ago.

Chateone, does your ex have good qualities that makes it worth being with him? Otherwise, why are you getting all cute with him?

In my case it was him (my ex) who always reaches out to me only after the relationships he leaves me for fail. The 1st incident happened after the 1st year we were together. He reconnected with an ex of his he failed to mention was still in the picture of his life that he still had feelings for. All along at the time of being with me. He said he loved me which I believe and as to why I allowed him into my life. He left to be with her. Less then a year later after he leaves he calls me to reconnect our friendship (because the relationship with the ex failed). He assured me that was over and I forgave him for leaving because I cared for him. <br />
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All was okay for some time as which point he started to tell me he was always busy with work. I discovered what it was that really kept him so busy. I came to found out that he was pursuing the married daughter of one ex girlfriend (20yrs old) and the niece of another ex girlfriend (19yrs old). He is 60 yrs old. I confronted him with this matter and proof that he was doing this (of course he lied about his involvement with them) but he would not listen. He left for the 2nd time to be with these very young girls in a relationship with both of them and is still with both of them to this day. <br />
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I know it is his pattern of behavior that when these silly girl relationship he has fail he comes all calling on me for support.<br />
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How many times is one suppose to be forgiving every time the ex decides to show up. Where to draw the line.

i feel exactly the same with my ex but i dont know weather to tell him