Too Old To Be Lonely

I keep trying to figure out what it is about me that attracts certain men.  I'm interested in 3 men right now, they all say they're interested in me. But I'm a social person.Call me wierd, but I like hearing from someone who's interested in me. Instead, I have a very nice guy in Germany in the US Army. He won't finish his tour until 2012 and he doesn't want to commit to anyone until the tour is over. I kinda understand that. A man that I've been in a long distance relationship for 2 1/2 years. But he won't come out this way to visit, he barely texts or calls me. We never email eachother. The third is the same. Except he's in my neck of the woods area wise, but he barely talks to me. No, I'm not a *****, I do not sleep with any of them. But I am lonely and frustrated. I'm so tired of being on the back burner with everyone. I don't feel important, I don't feel any value. I divorced a man that abused me in every sense. It's a cycle I believe I've put myself into.

agingquick agingquick
41-45, F
1 Response Jul 17, 2010

I don't think you can feel value with at least the two 'latter' fellas you talk about. They don't email or text or visit????............you have no value to them. I understand loneliness TOTALLY!!<br />
Give yourself a huge pat on the back for getting out of your abusive marriage.....yay you!!!