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Im Ugly

ive never liked me at all since i was in fourth grade. i saw all of these girls in my class and thought "why arent i like them? why dont i have a lot of friends and boyfriends?" and then i thought about it and knew ... it was because im ugly. i had to go through counseling for a while until i just acted like i was fine so they let me out of it. but im still not okay at the fact of me. i hate me. sometimes i just wanna break down and cry because i hate myself so badly.

basketcasex3 basketcasex3 16-18, F 8 Responses Jun 14, 2007

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You your uglyness to your advantage. Ugly people like us get open seats on either side of us when in a crowded place, we're never shoved up against in the subway, and in college I can sit in the middle of the chairs and there will be a large quarintine circle around me, go ugos!!

use your uglyness to your advantage. Ugly people like us get open seats on either side of us when in a crowded place, we're never shoved up against in the subway, and in college I can sit in the middle of the chairs and there will be a large quarintine circle around me, go ugos!!

I am so ugly iwould scare the rats off a cheese cake

i know i always hated my self and compared my self to other people.

I'm the exact same way. The worst thing you can do is to compare yourself to other people. Because it's you doing the comparing, so you lose every time. It's not fair game. I am in therapy right now for a bunch of self issues, this being one of them. Sometimes i want to get out of it also, but i stop myself because it's really the only way other than online i can get my feelings out and talk to someone about them. Even though you may have felt therapy wasn't working, i would suggest maybe getting back into it. The only thing that stops me from going back to my suicidal thoughts is being able to talk about how i feel and not have to worry about being judged. This site is great for that but sometimes you need more. Just remember that you are your own worst enemy, and that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What you think is "ugly" is beautiful to other people. You are most likely setting impossible standards for yourself that you think you have to but can't live up to. But in reality you are probably fine just how you are. It's not even about having a bunch of friends, a few close ones are better. It's hard to find genuine people out there and i can already tell from just reading what you wrote that you are genuine, and anyone who is a good friend of yours would be lucky. As for boys, they will come around. Just be you. Don't shy away because you feel ugly, get out there and show them YOU, because i bet they will love you just the way you are. Sometimes, and i know its way easier said than done, you just have to accept yourself. Accept you for everything you are and what you look like. Because the sucky reality is there is not much you can do to change it. You have to work with what you got, even if you feel you have nothing. Like its been said, confidence is everything. Show people you accept you and love yourself for who you are, and they will feed off of it. You might feel fake showing confidence you really don't have, but overtime you can actually start to believe it. You just have to be positive and stop setting such high standards. I'm here if you ever want to talk!

don't pay any attention on that.. i have the same problem... but i force myself to be confident, to forget i'm ugly... i was so unhappy, i don't have a nice figure or a beautiful face... but i know that it doesn't matter

Sweetie, quit looking at all those phonies on TV and look at the real people you know. Who is the most popular? Once you're out of your teen years at least, the "beauties" may get a glance but it's those who make others feel comfortable who ge the most attention. Smile at people. Listen to them. Remember they're just as insecure as you and be nice to EVERYONE!!! However you look, it's good enough. Don't worry about it.

Confidence and personality are the most attractive qualities about people. Caring and confident individuals are never called ugly, only unique. Try to find confidence, fake it if you have to :-), and show interest in other people, and you will have friends in no time.

youre so confident you blur youre profile pic.......thats really confident -.-

Confidence has nothing to do with what you see or show others, it comes from the inside, from a person's heart. A confident person would blur their photo because it shows that they don't need others approval.