To Ugly To Fall In Love.

BURNING FACES TURN TO BEAUTIFUL ASHES  

Sweetie hugs and kisses to you. I wish I could give you a hug. I saw myself that same way at one point in time,not being able to fit into the in crowd. Age brings reason,first you need to stop calling yourself UGLY,the way you look at yourself is the way others will see you. That special someone will come along trust me,when he does outward appearance wouldn't matter to him. Its what's inside that counts.  

really what you need is confidence. the most beautifull thing about a person is that persons love for themselfs and the confidence that brings to just be themselfs without fear that others may judge. looks really dont matter much when some of the most attractive people have some of the worst personalitys. beleave in yourself your capablitys and you will find yourself feeling less ugly. and more happy with who you are. in turn others will notice this and see the you for who you are not just how you look faith in yourself is the greatest faith a human can have. nothing stopping you from having that yourself :D

First thng dat u have 2 blive beuty is nthng when u comes 2 love there z a lot of beutful gals out there and they dnt have true love...probably eve byfrnd so stop critisizng urself blv in urself.....God neva wana anybdy 2 luk sad and compromise evrtym..confidence is evrthng my dr!  

I am truly sorry you feel like you do about yourself . I firmly believe that your lovely nature shines out of your sweet face and that s what matters . What is the point of having a stunning face that has a scowl on it ?

You WILL find someone worthy of you who loves you dearly.

Each day wake up and tell yourself ' I m MARVELLOUS ' . It does work ..everyday . and SMILE ...that s what people notice . AT everyone .

Oh, love; after reading your post I really wish you knew just how truly beautiful you are.
Because you obviously need a cliche response so just to get it out of the way....Beauty is in the eye of the beholder....I know blah blah blah.
Heres the truth: gravity gets hold of us all, there really is someone for everyone in this world, and having someone love you is only worth it if you love yourself first, the truth of a person is revealed not on their face but in their words and actions. I've never met anybody who IS happy with their looks. Keep in mind that half of all businesses out there are depending on you believing that your not beautiful........and if you can remember all that then my love you are much more beautiful then you will ever know.

You're not ugly! The only people ugly in the world are those who are evil, because as individuals they hurt another people. You just have to feel pretty and awesome. If you feel good about who you are and what you do, other people will see that; and because you're showing the good things about yourself, even a good self-esteem, they'll like it.

Don't worry and NEVER say that you are ugly again. Evil people are ugly, good people are beautiful.

Dear, you're still sooooo young.. 18 years! Wow.. You have a whole life ahead of you. I always say (in Dutch that is, but I'll translate it for you) "There's a lid for every pot, theres a partner for everyone"

Girl if you knew what I looked like when i was 18 comparing to now.. I was being laughed at for being fat (im still chubby but at liest i learned how to love myself), I was wearing braces, my hair was a mess, i had even worse excema then i have now (still have that but only when i have my period *ahum* but i have it under control now with salve). I compleetly lost my self confidence at that age, because it's the age when people judge others so hard for the way we look.

Its amazing how people can change in their looks..but also in character. Dear, you need to learn to love yourself, and I'm sure you will be. What you need to keep in mind most of all is: personallity makes beauty.

Would you rather want to be pretty on the outside and have a really bad bitchy character? No-one will stick around with someone who has a really bad character, who doesnt care about anyone else but him/herself, uses filthy language all the time, being rude, whatever.

People WILL love you, which includes a man one day who will come into your life, when you express the good inside of you, then you will attract people much more then you ever expected.

You need to put yourself into a better light. there is a sun shining inside of you, I can see it through your words no matter how sad they are written. You're only having an age when you see nothing but the clouds. There is sun out there, inside of you, and I also believe your looks will also change but looks really isn't the only important thing in this world.

Gosh if u knew how many people I love who are ugly as ugly.. it makes them soo beautiful, that i even felt in love with one of them. Still happens to me.

so im also sure one day a man will fall head over heals with you if he sees you in that same light as you should learn now, see yourself into this light, the beauty within you.

We're only the package of our soul.

take care dear. please dont worry so much.

I'd also like to recommend a book that really helped me, It's called "loving what is" by, Byron Katie. It really helped me.

I think you have distorted sense of what you look like. I think you should look into what's called body dysmorphic disorder. There is a very good book on this very topic called "Broken Mirror" I think you should seek help.

Good luck to you

There is one place that I know where looks on the outside matter much less than the looks on the inside. This group of people favor imagination over physical appeal much more often, and you can arrive looking like a munster and still get random friendly hugs by big cute fuzzy critters.
I speak of the furries. In high concentration, such as at a convention or on Second Life, furries tend to be very forgiving of one's physical appearance. They are also very non-discriminatory. And the bulk of the population is within your age group. And if you're too insecure about your own personal appearance, fursuiting (a subset of the furry culture) could give you the ability to blend in or even out-shine.
If you don't like anthropmorphic characters, it is a kind of odd suggestion. But, in all my years, I've NEVER seen a group that has been more accepting for who you are inside.

So you think your an ugly duckling eh? Do you know the truth about the story? The ugly duckling wasn't really ugly - just different. I've seen goslings, ducklings and baby swans. They're all cute. To a family of ducks the baby swan might look different (ugly) - but not to swans. There are two things we must all do to survive in this life; we can change the world, and we can change ourselves. We all do both. You can straighten your teeth, you can straighten your nose, color your hair and open up your mind. The ladder is the most difficult for most people - especially young people. I am an 8th grade science teacher. I teach aprx150 kids a year. All the girls are beautiful. I thought the same thing when I taught H.S. Yeah, some girls have that classic centerfold look, some could be models, but they all have the potential for beauty. How to turn it into kinetic beauty - that's what you want to know. You've been dealt a hand in life, now you need to figure out how to win with it.

True ugliness comes from the inside. There is no such a thing as a ugly person who is beautiful inside. Find the beauty inside of you and let come out. Don't let the world tell you what to think of yourself. Don't let the world tell you how to think. Be brave. Find a different path. Just don't waste time feeling sorry for yourself. Get out and face the world with whatever god gave you. Evidently god did not make you to be one of the herd. So don't try to be one of the herd. Write your life story: The story of an ugly girl that lived with 5 men. The first man was a lonely, older and wealthy and the ugly girl brought the old man happiness, and in doing so she became herself more beautiful . . . 5th man was a young prince. O.K. you don't like the story? Write your own. Maybe your trouble is that you lack God's greatest gift - imagination - with it all problems can be solved.

Honey, let me tell you something. I myself have a very isymmetrical face...my right eye is bigger than the left, my nose is uneven, my right cheekbone is more obvious than my left....and my teeth are not crooked but they aren't straight either, they kinda all lean to the right side of my mouth, and I';m so knock kneed it's unbelievable. But you know what? I have more strength, power, and love for myself than ALOT of 'perfect' chicks out there...they have issues too. Physical beauty is NOT and should not be the backbone of your life honey. And about boys, if you really like a guy, you should approach him. If he disses you, teases you, ignores you or anything of the sort, it's HIS loss. HE isn't worth your time. True Prince Charmings can see past imperfections.

I used to absolutely hate my appearance till I heard the song 'Unpretty' by TLC.....Now I realize I have alot more going on for me than I had previously realzed. Really, listen to the lyrics, they could change your life :)

Don't fret honey. There are men out there that don't see only outer beauty. Some, such as I, look for inner beauty. I have been out with women who are attractive, and some who are not. We like doing things together. That's what counts. I even fell in love with one woman, but we are not together anymore. Keep your spirits up. Maybe, try dating an older man. They are mature enough to not care what others think. I don't.

Don't feel that way about yourself sweetie. Beauty comes in all different ways. No matter what anyone says or thinks, you are beautiful :)