Stuck In A Marriage To A Great GuyHe really is a great guy. I just don't have the same feelings for him anymore. He is a great father to our two boys. He is smart and patient. But he doesn't turn me on, at all, ever.
So here is why I feel stuck:
1. He makes the money
2. Two kids I don't want to destroy
3. Scared to death to be on my own and lonely for the rest of my life
4. I have a past history of bulimia and do not want to go back to that, ever!
So, what do I do? Stay for the kids, for the stability? That is what I have been doing and most of the time, when he is at work, I am ok. But just feel like there should be more. A spark or something between a couple when they touch.
We have been married 12 years. Our boys are 10 and 12. Is this the worst time to disrupt the family unit?