Should I Stay Or Should I Go?

My wife and I have been struggling for about three years. We have 3 young boys which I love. My wife and I have been going to counseling but cannot settle are differences. She believes me to be alcoholic, so I quit drinking. I stopped hanging out with my friends and now she has found god and I am unwilling going to church. About 4 months ago I had to get some of my life back and I went out with old friends drinking. After that night she had disconnected from me. I had suspected their was more. Started digging and found text messages confessing her love and sexual desires with an old out of state ex-bf. I lost it!!!! Went back to counseling and started communicating.
However she started another month long daily conversation with a different ex-bf. she says she stopped talking to both of them and wants us to work out but I don't think this will work. I would be long gone if it were not for my boys.
Shupp Shupp
Jan 11, 2013