Myself As An Obstacle

Relationships haven't worked out for me and as a defense mechanism I developed this thought.  I rationalized all of the problems I have had with this idea that "i was meant to be single forever."  Its a way for me to come to terms that I have not met the right person yet.  It softs the hurt of being rejected.  I truly believe that by surrounding mself with family and friends I will never really be alone.  I just have to get more comfortable with the idea that I don't need a guy in my life all the time to make me feel like I am not alone. 

reachin4goals reachin4goals
31-35, F
1 Response Aug 2, 2007

You have a positive attitude... keep your chin up - someone special will come along....when you stop looking...