It's cliché I know but I hope it's not true. It's been over a year and a half and find myself in this dilemma. In my 38 years I had never experienced soulmate love,unconditional love despite having been married previously. And what kills me is the idea that it will never occur again and if I met someone else I can't settle for less. Obviously it didn't work between us. Although the pain is gone I feel lost and stricken by this dilemma if now having to settle for less which I refuse to do.