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I Think If You Want To Know About Me, Simply Ask

For My Friends To Know, What I Deal With Ongoing

By: noplan1958
Written on February 20th, 2013
Some of you know already, some don't, so this is for my friends here. I am married, sexless, marriage, not her fault at all. My wife has had serious cancer issues since 2007, and, just want to get this out and let people know, this is what is on my mind all the time. Don't want to get anyone down, just think it is better to let you people know what haunts me.
By: noplan1958
Age: 51-55 , Male
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  • shagaholic
    shagaholic

    Make the most of any time you have - the only thing worse than the life you are living is to live with regrets ... I wish you well.

    May 5
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    • noplan1958
      noplan1958

      Thanks and it is so true,every day is such a valuable thing!

      May 5
      1 like
  • maltesemermaid
    maltesemermaid

    awww . . . I am sooo sorry . . . I wish you both the very best . . . sending her and you some positive vibes . . . I am a supportive friend so if you ever need a buddy or just a talk or vent . . . am here for you . . . take care . . . both of you . . . xo

    May 5
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    • noplan1958
      noplan1958

      Thank you, thanks for reading my stories, I found it better to talk about it here, originally I did not. You are great and I will take you up on that.

      May 5
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    • maltesemermaid
      maltesemermaid

      most welcome my new friend . . . anytime .. . yeah this place is a wonderful vent system I find . . . very therapudic and supportive . . . and glad you decided to share . . . good for you . . . am here for you whenever you need a friend . . . so please do . . .

      May 5
      2 likes
  • Cachinga
    Cachinga

    Here I am again. This is where it all started. LoL...

    Apr 18
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    • noplan1958
      noplan1958

      Hi! Yeah, full circle! Thanks, you are a great friend!

      Apr 19
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  • Cachinga
    Cachinga

    Have u two been to a sex therapist? It saved my friends sanity for same issues due to med problems... Best Wishes...

    Feb 20
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    • noplan1958
      noplan1958

      No, the focus is more on keeping her alive and some quality of life, the whipple surgery she had pretty much changed her mid section for good so, too much pain there.

      Feb 20
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    • Cachinga
      Cachinga

      I'm sooo sorry...

      Feb 20
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    • noplan1958
      noplan1958

      Thanks, you are such a nice lady! Well, the outdoor shower is my lover and a good one for now!

      Feb 20
      1 like