It's Too Bad...

nobody likes good guys, bad boys are always in ... i've had my moments, but all in all i still consider myself a good guy. i will always be somewhat old fashioned, because that's how i was raised, and it's how i honor my mother ... i know that sounds corny, and possibly norman bates - ish ... but my mother died when i was 8, so i just try to live up to the kind of man she wanted me to be. i'll still open the door for a lady.. i'd rather opt to pay dinner than split... sometimes, lol... and yea i believe in true love, out there somwhere, but i don't think i'll ever attain it... i know i won't ... because i've already taken my course and i have to be a man and deal with the consequences of my own actions, for better or worse.

Overload Overload
26-30, M
2 Responses Nov 21, 2007

I disagree that nobody wants a good guy, because I'm with one and he's the best person I know in my life. I do agree that bad boys are "always in" as it seems, but seriously at the end of the day most girls want to be in the arms of a loving, respectful, good man (i say most to exclude women with different sexual orientations and others who just plain look for trouble and danger). I think everyone has a chance at true love, but maybe sometimes it doesn't look the way you expect it to in the beginning. I don't believe in love at first sight so that's why i say that. I think even true love deserves some work- what makes it true and pure and perfect for you are how all the little pieces fit together and make you feel whole. While sometimes this can happen magically all on its own (Thanks, disney -.-) Usually, you need to work for it =]<br />
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I know this is an old (super super super old 2007 lol) post, but I love love, and I'd hate to see someone give up or resign on it and just feel they'll never get it. Always be open to it, coax it, call for it. We can't sit there and expect it to smack us in the face (not most people at least). Just like everything else in life: we get back what we put into it.<br />
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I hope one day you come back and give an update and hopefully have some good news! XD<br />
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Good luck random person, I hope you find the love you deserve =]

"and yea i believe in true love, out there somwhere, but i don't think i'll ever attain it... i know i won't ... because i've already taken my course and i have to be a man and deal with the consequences of my own actions, for better or worse."<br />
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that's too bad...<br />
what if this is your only chance at life?