I Think Infidelity In Marriage Is Wrong.

There is no reason for cheating. Simple, plain and pure. Many men have lived there lives with 1 women in hand and done extremely well not screwing anyone over.



No excuses. Only a weak, and pathetic man will cheat. Just the same as a women. There is no excuse for it plain and simple.



Genetics is another way of saying "I didnt think about you and I didnt care how this will hurt you so I did it."

Yeah i agree . The "staying together for the kids" thing is still bull crap tho. Ive had to deal with it for the past 5 years or so.

I agree I left home at 17 because I couldnt deal with going back and forth between homes just because myy dad wanted something new. Now I am married and yes if he ever gets that urge to go to someone else for what he wants I would much rather me know ahead of time so we can seperate first and not put our daughter through anything to brutal! I understand you tho.

I agree I left home at 17 because I couldnt deal with going back and forth between homes just because myy dad wanted something new. Now I am married and yes if he ever gets that urge to go to someone else for what he wants I would much rather me know ahead of time so we can seperate first and not put our daughter through anything to brutal! I understand you tho.

I think all of us have acted in ways throughout our life that aren't justifiable but ARE understandable. I'm not sure if that makes sense, but yeah, marriage is a very serious and sober commitment. Don't enter into it lightly, but also don't be surprised when it get flipped on its head. Infidelity IS wrong with me and unjustifiable, BUT I can certainly understand when certain people do certain things. That's not condoning it, but rather admitting that, yes, it does happen and yes it is many times sex related.

I know im young and i know maybe sometime in the future i might even be in a situtation in such that i am the one unfaithfull but i still dont think its justifiable. I know the world isnt perfect and i kno therez a slim chance that infidelity will ever end. im just saying it'd be better if there would be consideration for the other person. thats all.



emm... no i dont think she has.

You're very young and I respect your views. Life throws curveballs and they add up with age. We end up doing things we swore up and down we'd never do in our lifetime and then somehow, decades later, some of those beliefs and moral codes have somehow been compromised. I hope you can forgive your father. Has your mother been able to forgive him?

I dont think its forgivable. Im not saying i hate my father. But i personaly think marriage is more than sex and ppl dont see that. many marriages are ruined for not having enough sex within it. you need to consider the fact that ppl get tired. Yes i understand that sex is important to show love ect. BUT if you have kids and work full time im sure your sex drive wont be up to par with the other person. and most of the time they dont consider that.For the person that is cheating not to consider his partner is just selfish. And its ok to lust but acting upon that especially wen married is wrong. i really do think so.

and the reason i say its a sex thing is that im not saying all but most of the time its caz there is no sex in the marriage.

Thats a great point off view but ts a point of view of someone that had been hurt.



If you read half the stories or confessions here you would know it happens all the time.



I try to look at at it this way. Love and emotion.



Meeting, going out,making love, getting engaged, getting married, having children, creating a future is 100 per cent love and emotion.



It can never messure up to just having sex with another which is only about 10 per cent love and emotion.



Guys do look at sex different,its the way we are built and we all have have different variations of what we consider to be love.



I am not defending myself but I know that there are guys who consider sex as emotional as shaking hands.



They do not consider their partner because there is not intention to hurt them or take it any further.



They are not thinking of their partner they just just want to fulfill their lust desires.



Please be more forgiving of your father . You know what you feel but not what he felt at the time. Think about all the good things he has done and not the bad.



Later in life as it may or may not happen to you or you have feelings for another but another but are stong enough to fight it, you may understand a little better.



Feeling the way you do will affect all your relationships and will really hurt you you if it ever happens.