I am a lesbian. I could go into the whole story of how we met but that is not important. The thing is, one day we were lying in her bed together just cuddling and she turns to be and tells me that she is deciding to go ahead and get a surgery to become a male. I had the choice to say that I did not want her to get the surgery, that I love her because she is a girl. But I realized that I love her because of who she is. Love is not ba
sed on what is in your pants. Love is ba sed on the person, how you two relate and get along. Love is caring for that person no matter what, regardless of what they chose for their lives. Whether she ultimately decides to get the operation or not, I will love her one hundred percent always.