Hmmm

I was just reading a story from a young man who is very very ashamed to have ***********.  I made a comment that I thought it is unhealthy to not ********** if you don't have a regular sex partner.  I don't care what those monks and catholic priests say (look where it's got them!)....************ is awesome and necessary, for both sexes :)

For men it's important to release ***** if nothing else.  I get a weird feeling down there if I haven't had an ****** in a couple days.  Plus I feel a little more nervous and more easily agitated.

For women I think it's important as well but I can't speak for them as clearly.  I think it would be especially important for a woman that has difficulty achieving ******.  Exploring yourself is the best way to be able to show someone else what turns you on.

ReformedAutomaton ReformedAutomaton
41-45, M
11 Responses Feb 25, 2009

Yeah, they say if you can't get it at home....I commend you for just going to the internet or under the sheets rather than out to an affair. Your wife really should understand that there's nothing "dirty" or wrong about ************, whether with yourself or your partner. Could you get her to some counseling sessions with someone who specializes in sexual issues?

My wife, she says, has never played with herself and prefers that I do it to her, but she seldom does it to me! Of late, I often do myself while she's in bed asleep. Erotic as I never know when she'll catch me doing it. she'll either join in and let me play with her as well or 'hrpmh' and get out of the bed and be all disappointed. No wonder cybersex seems interesting to some.

My wife, she says, has never played with herself and prefers that I do it to her, but she seldom does it to me! Of late, I often do myself while she's in bed asleep. Erotic as I never know when she'll catch me doing it. she'll either join in and let me play with her as well or 'hrpmh' and get out of the bed and be all disappointed. No wonder cybersex seems interesting to some.

Journeyman...I think ************ as with everything else is an addiction only when it negatively affects your life and it becomes an obsession. I think there are certainly people who are ************ addicts but they are also known as sex addicts.

If it feels good, do it. Even when you don't have a regular partner it's important to keep those ******* *******!

Yeah I think it's important for both sexes. More so for guys because there's a build up but there's one for women as well. Ehh I guess it varies from person to person. I have female friends who say they do it everyday when not having sex on a regular basis or they start feeling agitated. I don't need to do it nearly as often but I definitely think one could almost consider it unhealthy to have absolutely no action down there for too long a period of time.

You are so right RA! It's a great stress reliever at the end of a rough day. I just figured out how to do it and I've never been happier :)

Whelp....I smiled a little bit cap1015 :)

Ok, I don't mean to be a stickler, but the title says "I Think It's Important to Masturabate If You Don't Have Sex".............well for some of us, we didn't know that mastubation wan't sex, I was shocked to find that real people have more than one person in the room while they have sex.....see what happens to us poor old ugly guys!........Ok I'm kidding but that's funny, yes?

Thank you Danae...I agree with all but 'no matter how many times a day'. I've over-*********** before :)<br />
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I really like that you gave us a female perspective (and a nice visual too!)

haha...well you did but I didn't get the multiple la<x>yers of meaning :) <br />
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i've corrected my story a little bit in light of what you said on that other story. Maybe you could share with us why it's important to women.<br />
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By the way mutual ************ is awesome. It can be more of a turn on than sex sometimes. I love seeing a woman pleasuring herself. It's a different perspective than sex.

True enough!