Unspoken WordsMind games
If you are trying to communicate with someone to work out a problem. Before the crap hits the fan! They are playing mind games in order to keep from having them hurting you for not telling you. You are lowering yourself esteem. People are always going to be more interested in themselves than you. It's a fact of life.
Nature of their selflessness. I think people come from families that lack this communication. The person who truly respects you, will tell you exactly how they feel these are the kind of people I have around me. They feel to say no and be your own person. To have opinions and respect each other . So nothing is misunderstood. Out in black and white.
I have learned to forgive these people for their lack of communication. For not celebrating your worth. After all it took me a while to believe in myself. These are the people that know the skills of communication are worthy of my time.
So I reject people who do not come out in plain English and say how they feel. True feelings, they do not belong in my life.This is not a friend till they learn to value these skills.
They do Not belong in my life ... Is not a True friend... Will never give you anything worth keeping I always have more power and more strength than you realize. I am always "braver" You deserve what you give!
Allow others to Speak their minds, live their lives, disagree, leave and enter your life when they want. Assume responsibility for your failure to not communicate, than things never get out of control. Always remember people can not read minds, yet" we are Free to speak so attacking and confusion does not cause anger. Seek our best to stay on the path that promises the greatest spiritual success. It's called communicate! These are the people I want in my life! Till they learn these keys. I have no respect for them till they do~ not stones thrown by immature knowledge from the back ground of acquaintances . The person should speak themselves. "It takes two to tango" Two sides to every story!
For LOL i'm glad my wife and I have these values! ;) "Treat others how you wish to be treated"
CrystalRainsPearls 36-40, F 8 Responses 12 Apr 26, 2012