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Not Always What Others Think... Shame On Dirty Minds

I will never fight another woman (or a man for that matter) over a man's affections.  First, in case you haven’t read my posts here I am not looking for another man but I have met several guys that I have great friendships with. 

Secondly, if I am dating a man and another woman can have him then he wasn't the right man for me to begin with and I will simply walk away. I don't want a man in my life that would have another woman anyway. If that is the case she can have him.

I have no shortage of men in my life so there is really no need for me to fight over one single man. If I am friends with another woman's lover then i am the last person she needs to worry about; I am not going to betray my love for anything in this world.  However I love all my guy friends and I particularly love one more than others.  I am not looking for a man to be anything more than a friend to me so I do not understand why some people want to make something dirty out of male/female friendships.
fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 12 Responses Apr 24, 2012

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Wowowow !! we both are same here.

I have to defer to Billy Crystal from "When Harry Met Sally" on this topic. I just don't think MOST straight men can be friends with a woman they find attractive without sex getting in the way.<br />
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You and I are an exception FG. Feel free to ask me into the dressing room with you when you're trying on that lacy underwear. I'm just a "friend". :)

Well you got to understand that not all your friends like you as just a friend. I have been really good friends with girls and would think how nice it would be to has sex with them. There was a girl that I thought was really cool. Would talk to her all the time and have a great time with her. Never thought anything sexual about her . Even gave her advise about her fiancé. Telling her give him a chance. Even hung out in front of his house with out him knowing about it. She would get mad when he would hang out with his family. I always tried for her to be a more understanding girlfriend to him. Long story short she fell in love with me and now we are maried

Well you got to understand that not all your friends like you as just a friend. I have been really good friends with girls and would think how nice it would be to has sex with them. There was a girl that I thought was really cool. Would talk to her all the time and have a great time with her. Never thought anything sexual about her . Even gave her advise about her fiancé. Telling her give him a chance. Even hung out in front of his house with out him knowing about it. She would get mad when he would hang out with his family. I always tried for her to be a more understanding girlfriend to him. Long story short she fell in love with me and now we are maried

Well you got to understand that not all your friends like you as just a friend. I have been really good friends with girls and would think how nice it would be to has sex with them. There was a girl that I thought was really cool. Would talk to her all the time and have a great time with her. Never thought anything sexual about her . Even gave her advise about her fiancé. Telling her give him a chance. Even hung out in front of his house with out him knowing about it. She would get mad when he would hang out with his family. I always tried for her to be a more understanding girlfriend to him. Long story short she fell in love with me and now we are maried

Great story! I agree 100%!

Great post and thoughts fungirl!! <br />
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I have tons of platonic guy friends on and offline.... I make sure I keep it that way. too. ... I hold my marriage high above everything else and I make no secret of it. <br />
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I had to laugh tho...I did have one girl get all hissy with me for sending her cyber BF a bear hug..... That day they were soul mates and the next day they were enemies...I never did send him any more bear hugs tho!! :D

I have a select group of friends,there sex is unimportant !Friendship counts.

Good story. I know it's possible, but I think men are extremely sexual, and to keep sex out of their heads in a relationship with a woman who is actually attractive, well... That's not to say I'll be making something improper out of anything. How people relate is their own business I think.<br />
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Glad to read you on here FG. Hope to be in touch more soon my friend.

I share the same attitude....if there is competition from another woman for my man's affection, then I don't want him anyway. I won't compete for love...it's either there or it isn't.

I just have add that sometimes, however, it's nice to know someone would fight for you.... just saying :)

Thanks for the comments.

Great comments. <br />
As a male who prefers 1 women over multiples I whole heartedly agree. While I can aprecciate being on one level with many women I prefer to reserve a special place for a special someone. Plus more people = more issues &amp; drama, non of which i'm a fan of.