I've been with my boyfriend for 4 1/2 years the first years we were unseperable.  Then I got use to everything and everything became a little dull for a while however he recently moved 3 hours away and we are working out this relationship somehow.  I really realize that i love him and i change and everything is great however its hard to maintain this relationship he lies to me about people he works with (girls) and who knows what else? His phone when off the other day and i witness a converstation he was having with his co worker and it made me so jealous.  He never talks to me that way with that tone of voice and this has me thinking hes not into me anymore although he says he is i don't believe him,.  He also smokes weed and he was asking her what she felt like smoking that day. WHen i ask him about whether he smokes with other girls he say no what should i do? i feel like he doesnt love me or care for me help any advice

Plumeria414 Plumeria414
22-25, F
2 Responses Dec 15, 2009

Belief is the best thing in each and every relationship. leave rest on GOD......................

Why would you want to be with somebody who doesn't respect you enough to be honest with you? Move on - there is somebody better out there for you. You sound young - don't stress so much about this relationship. Let it go. If it's meant to be, he'll grow up and be a better boyfriend distance or not... but until then, I think you're getting played.