Very Very Confused!!!

Ok so i've been with my boyfriend for 5 months. I really never thought he was gay until i noticed we werent having sex! we have only done it about 4 times and he said at first it was because he didnt like condoms nd the made him lose his erection..then he told me it was because he has always had a problem with keeping it up. i dont buy this because apparently he can relieve himself just fine and he it perfectly erect when i am giving him oral sex. nd it also not just about sex...his mom nd cousins also think he's gay but in his family it would be a big deal if he was. idk if this is normal..i need a guys point of view or something and you can tell im desperate if im writing here! HELP!!!
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Jul 15, 2010