Heterosexual Men Do This?

Is my boyfriend heterosexual or gay? Is his behavior normal...let me tell you: My boyfriend twice have said on the phone, "we are 2 men that are mature enough in this relationship..." I wonder why he said that, does this means he is used to be with another men and for this reason he said so? instead of saying we are a man and a woman...also when I first started going out with him(he is the nephew of a friend of my uncle) he said he knows a lot of gay friends who told him how the have sex between each other. He is a truck driver and once when I questioned a man who is now a woman with his private parts of a woman, he said then is not longer a man is a woman.  Also, he says where he lives(he's been living there about 4 months) they think he is gay because sometimes he wears pink... also he says that some women when he is far away driving his truck wants with him and he says he is gay to take them off his back....he's been married before and has 2 kids and also lived with a woman 5 yrs another time. Now he is with me but we don't live together... One day I had a dream and I told him I dreamed with the prostitutes and homosexuals at the truck stop...he said "are you implying I have double personality?" One week ago,  I was telling him tha my luck is such that I twice I married bad guys and that I don't really know him but I don't think he can be a criminal, child molester...then he said maybe I find out that he is gay and I find him one day with another men kissing in bed...I told him not to joke like this...also when I am on the phone with him when he is far away, I heard him telling the other drivers bye and that he will have wet dreams with him, he doesn't care that I heard this....any comments?

confuse2 confuse2
36-40
2 Responses Oct 14, 2008

Sounds like he is gay and maybe jus use to being with women and sleeping with guys on the side...the fact that you dreamt that says a lot to me...I do believe answers comes in different ways and you should listen to your gut...you know the answer but for your health sake use a condom

OMG, seriously, you need to get rid of this guy.<br />
He is playing with your emotions and treating you like some kind of joke.<br />
He clearly does NOT respect you.<br />
You can do so much better than him i am sure.<br />
Heterosexual men do NOT do this.<br />
There are plenty of men who will treat you so much better than he does.<br />
Even if he is joking about some of what he says it still hurts your feelings and people that are supposed to love another person do not do that.<br />
Also he could very well be having sex with other people behind your back and he could give you all kinds of diseases.<br />
By the sound of it he can't be trusted and personally i would not waste another moment on being with him.