My Husband Really Hates Me!

I've only been married 7 months. My marriage is at a point where my husband can look me in the eyes and call me and and every negative name in the book. We are not affectionate nor intimate with one another, we no longer say "I love you" to one another. I know he is sleeping with other women, one of them the mother of his 1 year old child (yes, while with me). I own my home and have asked him to leave and free himself from the stress of marriage. He REFUSES to leave. Now that I want him out, he states I must evict him. He also states he will torture me and make every day helm for me until he is gone! He cut my face out if every picture hanging in our home. What an unstable evil environment to live in. I wish I could just leave (my home). We made it these 7 months only because I honor the covenant we vowed, and I stand by my word and commitment. I'm tired, hurt, lonely, disappointed, and empty! It is so far gone beyond repair! How can any man hate his WIFE so strongly?! The woman he promised to protect, why would any man intentionally inflict harm? What to do?
Tameckia Tameckia
3 Responses May 24, 2012

U r right... bcoz am also in ur situation!!!! am always feel lonely, depressed,hate everything, and even i dnt want to see him .... eventhough he do bad for me. i will do everything as his favour,whatever i do he hurt me a lot and lot.... U dnt worry, be happy always ,if u feel he will become more joyful so dnt give chance to him.... come up ur life... All d best...

You married a man who had a child while cheating on you. So this really is your own fault...however in saying that we all make bad decisions when we're in love. And he's the only person responsible for his own actions & choices...which include cheating & generally being a complete dirtbag. <br />
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So here's what to do; When he leaves to go sex his baby momma call a locksmith & change the locks. Contact your bank & make sure he can't access your savings. Then call the cops & tell them you're about to serve your husband with divorce papers so they take your side when you inevitably end up calling them while he goes nuts in the yard yelling about his keys not working.<br />
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If you're feeling charitable you can even pack him a suitcase & leave it by the front door. But don't go busting your butt over it. He can always buy more deodorant & such.<br />
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Don't feel bad. I guarantee he'll end up staying with his baby momma so he'll have someone to look after him. As long as that someone isn't you, you're golden!

End it now, he will definitely get worse, if you have any children together it would be a disaster. I have been married to my husband for twelve years and have three young children together. He walked out on us ten weeks ago, during our married life he has insulted me daily, he has been physically and mentally abusive, the other day he commented on how awful I looked in a photo taken just after the birth of my third child. I hope he is mentally ill because the thought of people like him existing is too much to bear. I am an attractive kind natured person and I am going to file for divorce, I am no longer taking this abuse any longer. He has definitely got worse as the years have passed and even though I am devastated about the break up of the marriage I can not live this way any longer, he had knocked my confidence and looks so much it was unbelievable. In a word he is a controlling bully, who to the outsider comes across as a handsome, polite, business man, I feel so sorry for his next partner as after the honeymoon period has ended she will be in for it. I had my warnings whilst we were dating, that was fiftheen years ago when I was a beautiful young girl, an I foolishly thought he would change, they don't, please get shot of him now!