I Think My Husband Hates Me
I have not been with my hubby long. I met him in 2012 april, and started seriously dateting in may.... but had 7-8 brake ups from then to July a month before we got married in august. We fight about money and my firery side, also if hes stressed about work, money, his daughter, his ex, or his health then I get yelled at and verbally abused.
I try to make him understand that he is over-reacting and needs to see the bigger picture of why he is mad or angery. But he doesnt want to hear it! He just blames me.
Our fights get really intense some times I get hurt not by his hand but he does push me. Which has only happend twice.
Did we get married too soon or is this just normal fights that I'm not use to because I've never been married and have never been in a long term relationship? (6-9 months is my longest relationship. The relationships ended mostley because we were both going in different directions in life). Please help me understand.
I try to make him understand that he is over-reacting and needs to see the bigger picture of why he is mad or angery. But he doesnt want to hear it! He just blames me.
Our fights get really intense some times I get hurt not by his hand but he does push me. Which has only happend twice.
Did we get married too soon or is this just normal fights that I'm not use to because I've never been married and have never been in a long term relationship? (6-9 months is my longest relationship. The relationships ended mostley because we were both going in different directions in life). Please help me understand.