He Was Sexually Abused As A Boy
My Hub and I have had a very ruff last few years,.. we are seperated now and he has just begun telling me that all his sexual encounters before meeting me ( at 19 ) was w other boys. It started when he was maybe 10.... he had an older boy do things , hes choosen to do sexual things to another boy and when he was around 14 he would pretend to be lovers and lay in bed with a boy who is now openly living a gay lifestyle.
MY QUESTION is: If you think ur husban dis gay is there a connection to childhood abuse or play with boys in his past that you know of at all?
Ps.. the reason i think he is gay even though he "cheated " on me w a woman at work ,.... is that he recenlty told me he often wonders what it would be like ot have somehing in his butt..which hes already experienced a ***** in his butt ( from childhood and i have donw it for him in the past as well. SO ... i take it he means hes wondering what actual sex would be like.. I don't know. Im confused and am starting to doubt we will ever get our marriage back.