My husben and I have been together for more then 20 yr. we have not slept in the same bed in 3yrs. He love his computer and his privet time. I tried to tell him it was over and he gave me that line you are my best friend and I love you. I feel its more of habit being together then anything else. I know I need to walk away because what kind of excample am I setting for my girls. But I do love him, but we are so not in an marrage we are room mates. we are not lovers we are BFF! I know my marrage is over but how do I tell him and make him except it?